I'm thinking under? But who knows? I don't know how long our vows will be yet since we're writing our own. And we all have some big entrances. Our bridal party & our entrances alone will take up 9-10 minutes.
I have no clue. We haven't discussed it with our officiant yet, which is when I assume we will find out. I'd like to keep it as short as possible though, so hopefully we will be spot on average.
I'm praying for 30 minutes, but FH is the one I'm worried about. He gets extremely wordy when he's talking, and even if he writes his vows down, I have a feeling he'll go off script.