Hi Fellow BTB's! This is more of a emotional rant of my life right now, so you do not have to comment if you don't want to lol.
I am really good friends with one of my FH's best friends' ex wife. (That's a mouth full). They had a pretty hard divorce, but the thing is, they are civil with each other! When it was time to do the guest list we even asked this particular person if he was ok with us inviting his ex wife, and he said he was fine with it. Low and behold a mere 4 months until our wedding, my FH's father decides to drop the bomb on us that he despises her, and he doesn't want her there. So much so that if she does come, he may not be able to come to our wedding. How crazy is this?! I'm at a loss either way it goes with this and I really don't know what to do. She's been helping me with the weddding up until now and is providing our lighting and is even going to be our day of coordinator! Doe's anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this? I feel terrible :(