Now the wedding went as planned and things are okay, but this sticks in my mind. Am I overreacting at being incredibly hurt and angry that the night before our wedding he was at a strip club with strange girls all over him? He got in at 4am and then tried to leave out the fact that that's where he was. Any other night I wouldn't have cared but I'm still feeling very disrespected. He would have been livid had I done something similar. I just need some real thoughts, not the boys will be boys crap I keep getting from his family.