Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Old school etiquette says that save the dates are sent at 6-12 months before the wedding when the venue and date are secured and then invitations are sent at 6-8 weeks before with replies due at 4...

I'm a huge Tim burton fan and the first time I saw The Corpse Bride I fell in love with the vows. My question is has anyone done them or seen them done and how were they worked into the ceremony? I...

This has been causing me such anxiety because I genuinely have no idea how to resolve this or who’s in the wrong. Is my husband being unreasonable & greedy or are my closest friends tacky &...

Hi everyone, I’m facing quite a predicament and I’m hoping you can help. I was a friend’s MOH last year. I know her since kindergarten but we weren’t all that close growing up, only started hanging...

Hey everyone! I stumbled upon a trend where couples send wedding invitations to celebrities, brands, and companies, potentially receiving autographs, freebies, or even personal messages in return. I'm...

There has been some conflicts and tension amongst some of the bridesmaids I have selected. I too feel disappointment for the same bridesmaid the other BMs have “issues” with. I am conflicted on if I...

Ugh so I've been arguing with myself if its actually worth it?? My FH doesn't care for it, but if we were to get one it would be more of a journal that people can write their wishes in (like the...

I am a teacher and I am getting married in November during the school year. I am just wondering if there are any other teachers on here who got married/are getting married and how you handled the...

Hi everyone, I need some advice on how to handle a bridesmaid who has expressed strong feelings of disappointment over not being named MOH in my upcoming wedding. If anyone has dealt with this before,...

I didn't find anything against forum rules, but this was the only place I could find to get advice! A good friend of mine invited me to her wedding which is happening in a few short months. I will be...

We are both Christians and we don't like the idea of each other attending strip clubs and things like that during our bachelor and bachelorette parties. My friends will most definitely respect my...

So my fiancé and I seem to have different views on the total price per plate (guest) Our food per person is $65Our drinks per person is $55Total $120 One of us thinks that means...

Hello Brides! My fiancé and I have decided that we do not want kids at our wedding. We have chosen Key West, a tropical, party destination as our wedding location. It’s a “destination wedding” in our...

I always thought I would change my last name with no hesitation. 😅 I own a business on the side and decided to order business cards for it. FH helped me design them and naturally we put my name as it...

Hi, I have a close family member hosting their bridal shower in a few months. She included a registry link on the invitation, but there's only about fifteen items on the list, most of which have...

I have two sets of exes who are my friends. Is it okay to invite them as long as I sit them far apart? One is a guy friend I've had for nearly 15 years. He and his wife are in the process of a...

My fiancés older daughters are going to walk him down the aisle. How do I title their role for my wedding page? Wedding escort sounds not very intimate or meaningful in my mind.

I have a cousin, over 18, who is in college and I am unsure how to send her the save the date/invitation since her "address" is her parents house. Do I send her and her parents separate invitations or...