I am so mad I could spit - ON CONCRETE! (Update#4)
I was going to wait until I got home, but I need to say this now:
Last night, FH and I had a meeting with the BP. We have 6 GM, 6 BM, 3 Jr BM 1 RG and 1 FG. Everyone was there and on time. One of the GM (the only one not married) brought his girlfriend. She pulled me aside and asked what would be her duites as a BM. WHAT?! I never told her she was in the BP. Apparently, HE did! Well, needless to say, her and I had a conversation that did not go well - for her! Now GM is mad because he feels she is not a part of the wedding because they're not married. Had to explain that was not true. All of the GM are FH close friends, and all of the BM are mine. He brought up how her and I have gotten really close; what the hell! Her feelings are hurt and FH says I should extend an olive branch and include her somehow. Told him, this is not my problem. GM should not have told her she was in the wedding.
Ladies, I may be wrong (I doubt it) but, if you were in this situation, how would you handle it?