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MrsS2013
Vegas Invitation Wording
MrsS2013, on January 19, 2013 at 11:52 PM

We are going to Vegas in Oct 2013 to get married. Its going to be very casual, in a chapel off the strip, with less than 15 guests. We'll all be wearing jeans and nice shirts. We aren't really having...

Glenda, Jan 20, 2013 5 105
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addressing invitation/save the date to married doctors?
E & G, on January 18, 2013 at 2:13 PM

Not sure if anyone has encountered this, but one married couple we are inviting to our wedding are both doctors. I feel like it would be slighting the wife to put "Dr. and Mrs." on the invitation but...

E & G, Jan 18, 2013 6 4,929
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How many bites per person for a late evening dessert reception
Rebecca, on January 18, 2013 at 5:37 AM

I am having my wedding in May at 8:00 pm (sunset). We are doing a desert reception to save $$ but are having a full bar. We will have bite sized deserts, a cheese platter, and fresh...

Hayley C™, Jan 18, 2013 1 457
Shannon
Would you be offended? Limited Tab Bar
Shannon, on January 14, 2013 at 11:26 AM

FH and I would like to offer an open bar at our wedding serving beer, wine, and a signature drink or 2 but are worried that the cost can get out of control. We were going through how much it would...

Spicydeene, Jan 16, 2013 91 673
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Question about offended guests
Linnea, on January 14, 2013 at 7:59 PM

I'm kinda curious about something I've noticed on WW. Sometimes, when a bride asks about something controversial like a cash bar or asking for cash instead of a registry, other brides warn her that it...

Carole M (a.k.a "old, Jan 15, 2013 48 722
Mrs. Grissett-Johnson
Asking your future in-laws for money: Yay or Nay?
Mrs. Grissett-Johnson, on January 14, 2013 at 6:08 PM

I'm in the very infant stages of planning my 2014 Spring/Summer wedding, but before I can really sort out the details the budget HAS to be settled. Without any questions my family has jumped in and...

Mrs. Grissett-Johnso, Jan 15, 2013 39 3,222
Mrs. DooPwee
Family that say "If you need help with anything just let me know"...
Mrs. DooPwee, on January 14, 2013 at 12:33 AM

I have an aunt (super loaded) that lives in Ohio and an aunt in England that have both stated this to both my mother and me. Thing is, what I and my FH need right now would be the funds to more...

Mrs. DooPwee, Jan 15, 2013 12 932
Shannon
Workplace Invitations WHAT TO DO?!?!
Shannon , on January 15, 2013 at 6:53 AM

I work in an area with app. 25 people. There are two areas, processing and the office. I work inside the office and two years ago, a woman from the office got married but did not invite everyone to...

Christina, Jan 15, 2013 8 210
Katie
Signing stones for guest book, need wording!! no clue...
Katie, on January 14, 2013 at 5:30 PM

Ok so instead of a guest book we are going to have a glass vase and blank stones set up for guests to write wishes for us on them. But I need something cute to write on the sign explaining it... and...

Hayley C™, Jan 14, 2013 3 904
Angela
Response cards: Mail-in vs. Online
Angela, on January 8, 2013 at 8:56 PM

I'm currently working on our invitations and we've come to a fork-in-the-road. Mail-in or online responses? I was just curious what other people have chosen to do and how it worked out.

Dawn, Jan 13, 2013 20 505
Andrea
Invitations for an "Already Married Couple"
Andrea, on January 13, 2013 at 4:25 PM

My husband and I were married at the JP this past October and are planning a public ceremony and reception for family and friends. Does anyone have any suggestions for the invitations? I am completely...

Kelly King, Jan 13, 2013 5 1,788
Kylee
Sunday Wedding....good or bad idea?
Kylee, on January 10, 2013 at 9:33 AM

Hello! My fiance and I have moved several times during the course of our relationship. We now live in Charlotte, NC with the bulk of his family from Ohio and mine spread up & down the east coast. We...

Rachel S., Jan 11, 2013 21 5,098
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politely ask guests not to bring more guests
christa, on January 10, 2013 at 2:43 PM

Hello! I'm having trouble trying to find a way to nicely ask guests to not bring anyone else. We have these close family friends who have 4 children and 9 grandchildren. Every time we have a party or...

Private User, Jan 11, 2013 15 7,018
Aja
Bridesmaid Curse
Aja, on January 9, 2013 at 11:39 PM

Have any of you heard about the bridesmaid curse? I've heard quite a few stories of some brides who are no longer friends with at least 1 of their bridesmaids after their wedding. Are any of you...

Robin A., Jan 11, 2013 39 2,950
Mika
Pre-Wedding Bridal Photo Shoot?
Mika, on January 9, 2013 at 6:23 PM

My mom is really really into photography, and while she's not doing the wedding photography (she'll be a little busy with other stuff, lol) she did engagement pics . Now she wants me to do a...

Zellywelly, Jan 10, 2013 8 902
Candace523
help...no bubbles, no rice...what did you use or any suggestions?
Candace523, on June 10, 2008 at 4:54 PM

Ok, so we were going to use these 3 dime sized rose buds tied w/ a ribbon w/ our names and date so guests can throw them then pick them up as favors, but it seems that everyone is knocking it down,...

Sarah, Jan 9, 2013 31 298
Marilyn
12 Days!! Juice Fast for a week? Advice Needed!!
Marilyn, on January 8, 2013 at 11:33 PM

So I am down to 12 days!! woot! But I am feeling really self-conscious! Between the holidays, and the wedding stress I have put on 5-7 pounds. So I was going to fast between tomorrow and next...

Mrs. S™, Jan 9, 2013 24 236
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Invitations for TWO receptions
Laura, on January 8, 2013 at 6:38 PM

My fiance and I are planning to have a full wedding (ceremony & reception) in his hometown, then two weeks later, have a less formal cocktail/hors d'oeuvre reception in my hometown. I'm not sure how...

Christine Evans, Jan 9, 2013 6 4,391 1
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Catholic Invite Wording
Christina, on January 8, 2013 at 2:13 PM

Hi all, My fiance and I are getting married by our church (Catholic) but we are not having a mass because we are very close to the Deacon and want him to marry us (and Deacon's can't perform masses)....

WWLeeor, Jan 8, 2013 8 296
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Invite wording to include grooms parents?
Kayla, on January 7, 2013 at 11:13 PM

I am creating my own invitations. I am having some difficulty coming up with wording for my invites. My parents are footing the majority of the bill of the wedding and my fiance and I are paying for...

Ashley, Jan 8, 2013 3 2,098
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