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Kayla
Vendor gifts
Kayla, on December 19, 2012 at 8:30 AM

I saw something that a photographer friend posted on Facebook about gifts for the photographer. (And other vendors) do I get them gifts and or tip them? I am of course already paying my photographer...

, Dec 22, 2012 24 4,051
B
Bridesmaid backed out due to financial reasons and I replaced her. Now she's mad at me! HELP!!!
Beach Bride, on June 27, 2011 at 4:07 AM

One of my bridesmaids (best friend from HS) backed out of my wedding due to financial reasons. I offered to help her out by giving her $1,000 towards her travel and paying for her bridesmaid...

Santina42, Dec 20, 2012 30 200
Jamie
What to get someone who doesn't have a registry?
Jamie, on December 19, 2012 at 9:04 PM

My cousin is getting married this weekend. They live in Toronto and we will not be able to attend. They haven't registered anywhere. They came to our wedding and gave us a $100 gift card. I...

Jamie, Dec 20, 2012 14 543
Chelsea
Rsvp/children
Chelsea, on December 18, 2012 at 9:28 PM

What is a respectable way to word " NO KIDS ALLOWED AND IF YOU DON'T RSVP YOU WILL NOT BE ENTERING" my sister wants to put a little insert card in with the invitations that says this but not in those...

Allena, Dec 19, 2012 28 1,110
Destiny
Officiant refuses to file our marriage license?!?
Destiny, on December 7, 2012 at 3:43 AM

We decided to have my fiance's brother officiate our wedding. Afterward I gave him our marriage license and he filled it out and had the witnesses sign it. Unfortunately he misspelled something, and...

Destiny, Dec 18, 2012 11 2,802
Arzel
Female usher?
Arzel, on December 17, 2012 at 1:03 PM

Would it be strange to have a female usher? I need someone to hand out programs and watch the guest book. I want to have my guest book at the ceremony as well because there are several guest who can...

Lisa, Dec 17, 2012 17 586
Aimee
Addressing save the dates and invites to families?
Aimee, on December 13, 2012 at 6:43 PM

I would like to use the same formal address format for my save the dates and invitations. I will NOT be using a second inner envelope for the invitation. I have two questions... 1) How do I address a...

Sarah D., Dec 16, 2012 3 1,157
mrsg
100 Questions to Ask Before Marriage
mrsg, on December 15, 2012 at 9:22 PM

At first I scoffed and thought, "What, are you supposed to sit there with a checklist and an answer sheet?" But as I read these questions, I thought that you really should ask many of these in some...

Maggie N, Dec 16, 2012 8 78
Aimee
How to Announce an Open House?
Aimee, on December 14, 2012 at 11:33 AM

When do you invite or announce an open house (not a reception) after a destination wedding? Ours may be 3-4 weeks after the wedding. Should I include another insert with the wedding invitation? Should...

Lizz M., Dec 14, 2012 1 73
Irchykk
Wedding Thank You cards & Christmas Cards?
Irchykk, on December 12, 2012 at 1:47 AM

Been a while since I been here. Our wedding was 8/31 & I still have not sent out Thank You cards. but its on my todo list by the end of the weekend. A lot of things have happened since the wedding, as...

Irchykk, Dec 13, 2012 8 625
Kay
Receiving Line????
Kay, on December 10, 2012 at 12:24 PM

I just have a few questions if anyone could help me So is a receiving line required? If you do a receiving line who normally stands in it and it what order? Thank you anyone who can help with this, we...

WasSoon2BMrsSmith, Dec 12, 2012 21 189
Jamie
Shutterfly photo books -- leather covers?
Jamie, on December 11, 2012 at 7:35 AM

Now that H and I have our pro pics, I've been compiling photo albums for our parents. We're using Shutterfly since their books seem to be top notch. We know our parents will both like leather covers...

Shay, Dec 11, 2012 4 139
Private User
after brunch wedding
Private User, on December 8, 2012 at 2:17 PM

So I have been thinking..if you have a brunch wedding what do you do after the reception? We have family and a few out of towners but if the reception ends around 3, what do we do after?

Diana, Dec 10, 2012 7 410
Jules
Sending an invite out of courtesy..?
Jules , on December 10, 2012 at 6:51 PM

I've been wondering how to approach this. I have some friends, more like acquaintances, who invited me to their weddings but I was unable to attend for one reason or another. Do I Need to invite them...

Private User, Dec 10, 2012 5 1,258
Jules
Negative Family Members.... How should I deal with this??
Jules , on December 9, 2012 at 9:24 AM

We've been engaged 3 mos- our wedding is Sept 2013.. His family is Soooo happy for us (we've both been thru really bad past relationships & are so right for each other). Our friends are also really...

Miss Miranda for Now, Dec 10, 2012 16 475
Krista
Invitation Wording
Krista, on July 9, 2012 at 4:28 PM

Okay, I already posted something similar to this but I seriously don't know what to do. We are getting married on the lake BUT by our pastor, so is that still considered a "church marriage" and okay...

Lindsay, Dec 10, 2012 15 203
Emily
I FORGOT THANK YOU NOTES
Emily, on December 10, 2012 at 1:25 PM

I just found a box in my desk filled with Thank You notes from my wedding that I had apparently forgotten to send!!! It has nearly every thank you note that I had, minus a few that I hand delivered....

Jen P., Dec 10, 2012 5 251
AKCanuk
Cake and Punch Reception
AKCanuk, on December 12, 2007 at 1:44 PM

I saw somewhere on the discussions about putting "cake and punch reception to follow" at the end of an invitation. I am trying desperately to cut costs and if we can't than we'll do a JP. I would like...

April, Dec 8, 2012 12 2,684
Sheida McCrory
What do you think of Sybaris?
Sheida McCrory, on December 3, 2012 at 2:33 PM

We've been to the Sybaris before and we loved it, but we keep hearing these horror stories about the Sybaris. What do you think of us having our Honeymoon at the Sybaris? The Chalet Suite!...

MJ, Dec 3, 2012 10 729
Aimee
Invitation Etiquette by Martha Stewart... this helped a bunch!
Aimee, on December 2, 2012 at 10:28 PM

I've seen a lot of ladies asking about invitation etiquette. Martha Stewart has a lot of great guidelines! Plus a lot of other wedding ideas and advice. Invitation Wording:...

Christina, Dec 3, 2012 1 141
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