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How to communicate "what to wear" for the wedding?
Purnima, on January 22, 2014 at 10:49 PM

We will be wearing Indian wedding clothes. If possible we would want our guests to dress similarly. On the invitation we need to clarify this attire for the wedding. Is it black tie optional? Is there...

Private User, Jan 23, 2014 12 2,340
thefuturemrs.petersheim
feel like im signing my life away.....
thefuturemrs.petersheim, on January 22, 2014 at 7:27 PM

Our venue director has sent us the contract for our venue. it's time to sign. i feel like im signing my life away. we are not changing out minds about this place, its stunning and we love it. but im...

Tanya, Jan 23, 2014 14 517
Mayra <3
Anyone has or had second thoughts on spending so much money on a wedding?
Mayra <3, on January 22, 2014 at 1:49 PM

So, we set our budget to $1O grand ( we do NOT want to spend anymore than this). Our wedding isn't til next year. The thing is, I alone have those 10 grand. From now til next year DF and I will...

Lashanda, Jan 23, 2014 46 250
Mary
Bridal Shower Cost
Mary, on January 22, 2014 at 4:16 PM

I am a bridesmaid for my friends wedding. I understand that accepting this role meant I would be spending money but I feel like the bride may be getting out of hand. She's "requested"- -that we go out...

ChampagneTaste, Jan 22, 2014 8 234
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Gift for someone who doesn't say Thank you
G, on January 22, 2014 at 10:49 AM

My cousin is getting married for the second time. When she graduated from high school, I sent a gift and received no thank you. I also sent a gift for her first wedding and, again, did not receive a...

Marissa, Jan 22, 2014 32 1,865
Finally mrs.jkr
entire procession to one song?
Finally mrs.jkr, on January 21, 2014 at 1:09 PM

I'm gtting married in the Catholic chruch, which encourages focusing on the union and God (example doesn't allow modern music that's not Christian or the bridal march)... would it be odd to only use...

Kate, Jan 22, 2014 17 684
catherine
Rsvp due and still waiting
catherine, on January 21, 2014 at 7:34 PM

RSVP's due in 3 days and still waiting on about 35 ppl! What do you guys do if they do not rsvp? Contact them? and if they still don't respond to your email or messages do you just take it as they...

Jennifer, Jan 22, 2014 21 292
FutureMrsRaskin
Surprise Weddings?
FutureMrsRaskin, on August 11, 2013 at 3:02 PM

FH and I attended his cousin's engagement party yesterday, and about an hour into the party they announced that they were getting married that day! I thought it was cute and an exciting alternative to...

Kate, Jan 21, 2014 18 1,037
Amanda
Conservative Family
Amanda, on January 21, 2014 at 2:19 PM

Many of the relatives on my side of the family that are invited to our wedding are VERY religious/conservative. I grew up this way too, so I can somewhat understand where they are coming from, but my...

ItsGoodToBeKing, Jan 21, 2014 15 121
Lynnie Pin
Help me, My venue chairs are ugly! What can i do?
Lynnie Pin, on January 20, 2014 at 3:08 PM

Attached is a pic of the chairs at my venue, they are kinda ugly. Chair covers=Out of the question. same with renting.... I also seen ideas on pinterest but im wondering if you guys can help. I wanted...

Renata, Jan 21, 2014 21 2,952
Brittany
9 Things Brides Wish They Had Done Differently
Brittany, on January 19, 2014 at 11:17 PM

Http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/4564186 I thought this was an interesting read. There are definitely things on here I didn't think of.

Brittany, Jan 21, 2014 18 124
FutureMrsT
Can I UNASK people to be in my wedding?
FutureMrsT, on January 20, 2014 at 5:58 PM

I originally asked three of my friends, and one of my cousins and my niece to be bridesmaids. My cousin backed out and I have a very strong feeling that 2 of my friends are going to end up backing out...

Erin, Jan 20, 2014 9 992
Natasha
Thoughts on Friday Weddings?
Natasha, on January 3, 2014 at 3:20 PM

We just got engaged and would love a 2014 fall wedding. I'm finding that a lot of venues have all Saturdays booked already but some have Friday evening weddings. A lot of our guest will need to travel...

Heather A, Jan 19, 2014 21 903
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Walking down the aisle... Non-traditionally
Ashley, on January 17, 2014 at 9:10 AM

Hi guys, I really hate the whole "giving the daughter away scene", but my mama mentioned my father would be upset if he doesn't get to walk me down the aisle. Alternatively I was thinking of having...

britt morgan, Jan 19, 2014 33 1,146
Ned. G (The one in Wales)
Crazy aunt, cousins and refusing to attend the wedding(!!) - what to do ??
Ned. G (The one in Wales), on April 6, 2013 at 5:38 PM

I have one of those aunts who no one likes I'm not even sure my uncle likes her. Usually I would avoid her but can hardly invite my uncle and not his wife Anyway we have just found out that some of my...

Private User, Jan 19, 2014 21 1,481
Sarah
Open Invitation
Sarah , on January 19, 2014 at 5:11 PM

I'm a city girl. My fiance is a small town Kentucky boy. Apparently in small towns, it is common to have an open invitation in the newspaper inviting the entire town to the wedding. After lots of...

LB, Jan 19, 2014 8 1,803
Tasha-n-Adam
Who do you regret inviting or not inviting to your wedding/reception?
Tasha-n-Adam, on December 12, 2013 at 12:43 PM

I, as are many other brides, am struggling with my guest list and who to invite or not to invite. I want to keep it very simple with about 75 people... But I am from a huge Italian family and there...

Private User, Jan 19, 2014 32 3,443
FutureMrsVasquez
Bridal Shower/Bachelorette Party.. Same day??
FutureMrsVasquez, on January 17, 2014 at 11:14 AM

I'm getting married in April and my mom & MOH and I are starting to plan my bridal shower! I'm thinking I want to do the shower around 4-5 in the afternoon then go out for bachelorette party that...

erin, Jan 19, 2014 14 1,830
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Difficult Wedding Venue Owner - NEED ADVICE!
Allison, on January 18, 2014 at 2:37 PM

My fiance and I found a beautiful venue, and the owner is lucky it's gorgeous. He is a boar to work with so far. He prioritizes his preferences over ours and has made us question ourselves every step...

Allison, Jan 18, 2014 1 123
Lynnie Pin
Are you Spending the night before your wedding alone? If so what are your plans?
Lynnie Pin, on January 17, 2014 at 11:13 AM

Im just curious to who is going to be spending the night away from their FH the night before. I decided I will but I was wondering what everyone else will be doing on their time alone. FH and I never...

FutureMrs.Combs, Jan 18, 2014 36 283
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