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Lynnie Pin
Super February 2014

Are you Spending the night before your wedding alone? If so what are your plans?

Lynnie Pin, on January 17, 2014 at 11:13 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 36
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Im just curious to who is going to be spending the night away from their FH the night before. I decided I will but I was wondering what everyone else will be doing on their time alone.

FH and I never spent one night apart since we been together so im nervous lol. I know that we don't HAVE to separate but I feel like its part of the whole experience!

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Latest activity by FutureMrs.Combs, on January 18, 2014 at 11:35 AM
  • TheOGJesse's Girl
    Master March 2014
    TheOGJesse's Girl ·
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    I won't be with FH, but I won't be alone.

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  • Just Reenski
    Master December 2012
    Just Reenski ·
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    I spent the night alone before our wedding, but I was up until midnight working on my MBA final presentation that was going to be three days later. Smiley smile

    That said, I enjoyed having the whole bed to myself. It's one night, you'll be fine.

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  • ChampagneTaste
    VIP September 2014
    ChampagneTaste ·
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    Congrats on your MBA!!

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  • MrsWilliams
    VIP September 2014
    MrsWilliams ·
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    Wont be w/ FH, will be w/ my girls so no biggie.

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  • Mrs Drakthal
    Master September 2013
    Mrs Drakthal ·
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    I spent the night at my SIL and BIL. It was really cute the eight year old flower girl is their daughter and she insisted on waiting on me hand and foot including turning on the hot tub for me, and drawing me a bubble bath!

    ETA: She also kept bring me wine while I was in the hottub.......apparently her mom and dad were putting her up to that part!

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  • It's Mrs. E
    Expert January 2014
    It's Mrs. E ·
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    FH and I don't live together, but we are together every single day after work. We decided that we will not see each other at all the day before. He will hang out with the guys that day and I will be with my girls so be won't be alone, but we won't see eachother.

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  • Courtney F
    VIP April 2014
    Courtney F ·
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    FH and I don't live together yet, even though we own a home. I will be staying at my parent's house the night before, like I usually do. My sister will probably come and stay over too since we have to be up early for hair and make up.

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  • Glenda
    Master October 2013
    Glenda ·
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    We got married in Vegas so we were in a hotel room or otherwise I probably would've had a sleep apart from each other. Our wedding was Sat. evening, so at, like, 2pm, I kicked him out and made him go to his parents' room to get ready.

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  • Michelle
    Master April 2013
    Michelle ·
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    We had a house full of guys staying with us and we had rehearsal at 9 am and set-up. So we spent the night together... They went out til like 3 am to the casino and I was finishing wedding stuff waiting for them and then went to bed.

    In the morning they drove separate and we set up they came back to the house and showered and went to his parents to get dressed while the girls came back here to get ready.

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  • FutureMrsZottola
    Master July 2015
    FutureMrsZottola ·
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    FI and I don't live together yet and if by then we happen to have a home together we will still sleep apart. I will probably sleep at my mom's house the night before.

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  • Tiki67
    Super June 2014
    Tiki67 ·
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    I won't be with my FH, but I haven't made any plans for that yet... I have a while until June 7th, but I'm sure I'm not going to be alone.

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  • C
    Master July 2014
    csquid ·
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    We're spending the night before apart. I'll be in the bridal suite with my mom in the connecting room. FH will stay in a room with his brother most likely (the BM).

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  • Jessica
    VIP July 2014
    Jessica ·
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    I will be spending the night before in a pent house suite of a hotel with my Bridesmaids and most likely mom and aunts. Then we will get ready in that room and that night FH and I will stay there.

    We currently live together and there is no way I am going home with my inlaws who will be staying at our house the night of our wedding.

    I would have loved to get ready at my house, but once again I have the inlaws there who will take up our spare rooms and no where for anyone to stay. I also dont feel right waking up with them there and not my family.

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  • Koch Bride
    Master September 2014
    Koch Bride ·
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    I'm going to sleep at my mom and dad's. I did ask if I take the dog though because I need at least one of them there to sleep at night! :-) But seriously...who wouldn't want to sleep next to this guy?


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  • Kesslertobe1018
    Super October 2014
    Kesslertobe1018 ·
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    My girls and I will actually be staying in the hotel that is close to our venue. That way we can already be close to the venue and start with everyones hair and make up in the am since our ceremony is at 12 o'clock.

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  • Theresa Beale
    Master November 2014
    Theresa Beale ·
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    I am going to spend the night at the hotel where we are having the ceremony/reception. My sister (MOH) and nephew will be spending the night with me as well. We are going to use the pool and Jacuzzi and just relax. It should be a good time.

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  • Tiffany M. ( Tiffany P.)
    Master August 2012
    Tiffany M. ( Tiffany P.) ·
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    @Koch Bride. Your puppy looks like my BFF/MOH's dog named Audi.

    I stayed at my parents. Unfortunately they had the air conditioning running all night and I froze. Didn't get a lot of sleep. Had to be up at 5 a.m. on the day of the wedding.

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  • Lynnie Pin
    Super February 2014
    Lynnie Pin ·
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    @Koch bride, aww can I borrow the puppy!?!

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  • jenna_
    Master March 2015
    jenna_ ·
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    We aren't spending the night together the night before. i'm staying in the spa suite that we will stay together in the night of the wedding and he's going to stay in a cabin with his dudes.

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  • LadyMonk
    Master September 2014
    LadyMonk ·
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    Me too! Puppy!!!

    I have lots of DIY projects so I'll probably still be working on last minute details. My plan is to take a bath, and relax. I'm contemplating inviting my MOH and BM's over for a sleep over.

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