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Lynnie Pin
Super February 2014

Are you Spending the night before your wedding alone? If so what are your plans?

Lynnie Pin, on January 17, 2014 at 11:13 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 36

Im just curious to who is going to be spending the night away from their FH the night before. I decided I will but I was wondering what everyone else will be doing on their time alone. FH and I never spent one night apart since we been together so im nervous lol. I know that we don't HAVE to...

Im just curious to who is going to be spending the night away from their FH the night before. I decided I will but I was wondering what everyone else will be doing on their time alone.

FH and I never spent one night apart since we been together so im nervous lol. I know that we don't HAVE to separate but I feel like its part of the whole experience!

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  • Ashley
    Dedicated February 2015
    Ashley ·
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    I plan to stay in a suite with some of my BP. I have also looked into hiring a nail technician to come to the suite to do everyone's nails and just spend some relaxing quality time with my mom sister and close girlfriends.

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  • thefuturemrs.petersheim
    Devoted May 2015
    thefuturemrs.petersheim ·
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    Im making FH sleep at his best man's or parent's house, and i will be in our house with my MOH. the kids...well i have no idea where they are going to be...probably with his parents the night before and during the day...then they would come early and bring them so we can get them ready...one for each of us! lol. i think its kinda romantic not seeing each other until the moment of. goes back to the tradition of when nearly all marriages were arranged.

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  • Koch Bride
    Master September 2014
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    @Tiffany aww my pooch is named Alfie!

    @Lynnie and Amanda sure! Just be aware that the picture is not nearly as cute as he truly is!

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  • Karley
    Super November 2014
    Karley ·
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    I'm planning to spend the night with my maids at an inn near my venue, that way we're all together the next morning to prepare.

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  • MrsC
    VIP January 2014
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    I'm staying with our daughter at my Grandparents where the wedding will be.

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  • TiffanyShay
    Master October 2014
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    I'm staying at my parents house... We are having the rehersal dinner there the night before. I'm giving my BMs the choice to either stay with me (my parents currently have my old bed and two couches) or sleep at home and meet up with me in the morning. I really want them to have the chance at a good nights sleep so they can enjoy the day since I know it will be long lol. In all honesty tho, I hope at least one of them wants to spend the night with me lol

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  • Mrs. Shanon V
    Master May 2014
    Mrs. Shanon V ·
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    I haven't decided. While I like the idea of being with my girls....I sleep better if he's next to me.

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  • Tash
    Super May 2014
    Tash ·
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    Im having a pre wedding slumber party in my suite with my BMs. So I wont be with FH and wont be alone.

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  • TheNewMrsOldrid
    Dedicated June 2014
    TheNewMrsOldrid ·
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    I'm staying at a hotel with my girls and my parents since we are all getting ready together the next day I thought it'd be fun to have a girls night..can't wait

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  • Nadine
    VIP August 2015
    Nadine ·
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    I will be staying at the venue. Hotel is right on the same grounds. Planning on staying in the honeymoon sweet with my sister and probably mother if she doesnt want a seperate room. Then the day of my sister and bridesmaids will all be there. Fh will stay at the house or his parents.

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  • Mary
    Expert February 2014
    Mary ·
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    We'll all be at the venue hotel. I'm going to stay in my best friend's room - we have to be up early anyway for hair and makeup.

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  • Sandra
    VIP July 2014
    Sandra ·
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    I don't know where i will be and don't really care about that but not with the FH. we are traditional and don't live with each other till we are married. but i will be with my sisters who are all my bms so i will be having a great time.

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  • Gamecock Mrs.
    Master October 2014
    Gamecock Mrs. ·
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    Really it's whatever you want. I am spending the night without FH at the hotel that will become our wedding suite the following night. My sister might stay with me if she wants,otherwise, I will be alone. I plan on getting back from the rehearsal dinner, taking two benedyrl and hope to have a good night's sleep.

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  • Mrs. Noratel
    Super June 2014
    Mrs. Noratel ·
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    I will be spending the night at our venue the night before, but I won't be alone. My bridesmaids will be staying with me in my suite. It'll be easier this way and they all really wanted to stay with me. FH will be staying at our house with the 4 legged children lol

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  • Lady V
    Super September 2014
    Lady V ·
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    I sleep best in my own bed next to my fiance, and I'd prefer to actually get some sleep the night before the wedding...so yeah. We'll probably be together.

    It makes more sense for us logistically as well. We only have one car between the two of us (and the vast majority of the guests will be from out of town), and a hotel room for that night would just be an unnecessary expense that would be better used elsewhere.

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  • F
    VIP May 2014
    FutureMrs.Combs ·
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    I'll be alone, but I'll be with one of my friends and my family, so it'll be fine.

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