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Dr. & Mrs. R
Price Per Plate??
Dr. & Mrs. R, on August 25, 2014 at 9:37 AM

How much is your food for the reception per plate? We are having a buffet style with 4 entree options. Chicken, beef, fish, and vegetarian. It comes out to $19.95 a plate. I was just curious if...

TiffanyShay, Aug 26, 2014 87 1,537
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Tell unsupportive parents before or after wedding?
Lindsey, on August 23, 2014 at 5:56 PM

My fiancee and I are getting married in October and have purposefully planned a very small coast wedding with only a few close friends in attendance. Over a year ago, my fiancee wrote a letter to my...

KarenM, Aug 24, 2014 20 231
Kate & Nick
Mother's Day Wedding Ideas
Kate & Nick, on August 23, 2014 at 6:57 PM

I am looking for some creative advice! My wedding is planned for May 10th 2015 (5/10/15) which also falls on Mother's Day. This date is very special to my Fiance and I, and we wanted to get married on...

Nancy Taussig, Aug 24, 2014 6 245
Sara
When did your parents meet
Sara, on August 22, 2014 at 12:27 PM

When did your parents meet FH's parents? We are 51 days out from the wedding and our parents still haven't met yet. I honestly sort of think we may just have them meet at the wedding or the night...

Zoe, Aug 23, 2014 47 1,890
Staci
Dollar Dance for Charity
Staci, on August 18, 2014 at 12:48 PM

Hi all, First time posting! I know there are a lot of strong opinions on the Dollar Dance and in general I understand and agree that you should never be asking your guests for money. However we were...

Future Mrs Yocum, Aug 23, 2014 12 196 1
FutureMrs.Girlinghouse
Are you buy a gift for a lingerie shower?
FutureMrs.Girlinghouse, on April 21, 2009 at 6:12 PM

Im invited to my friends lingerie shower. Ive never been to one and I was wondering if I am suppose to buy her lingerie or something? Also, is it ok to go and not buy a gift since I've already bought...

marie, Aug 22, 2014 14 5,623
Snarky
If you get invited to a wedding but cannot attend, do you still send a gift?
Snarky, on August 21, 2014 at 11:30 AM

What's the etiquette on this? FH & I were invited to a wedding that we can't attend and FH & I disagree on whether or not to send a gift. He says he has never sent a gift for a wedding he couldn't go...

Snarky, Aug 21, 2014 15 6,284
Liz Ann
Seating Chart for 30 person wedding?
Liz Ann, on August 20, 2014 at 7:01 PM

Hi all! I am having a restaurant reception with about 30 people. It is still necessary to have a seating chart? Thanks in advance for the help!

Liz Ann, Aug 20, 2014 6 2,112
Miss P.
wedding hashtags...how does this work?
Miss P., on August 20, 2014 at 11:34 AM

Okay, yes, silly question. I am still learning how to work the whole instagram world lol. Now that I have a hashtag to use...is it something I "claim" or I just tell people to use and that is it? When...

Dee, Aug 20, 2014 15 2,874
Mrs.Temme
UPDATED: MOH plus one?
Mrs.Temme, on August 20, 2014 at 8:31 AM

I live in LA, my MOH is in CT. She is perpetually single and dates come in and out of her life casually and I never meet them. I never considered giving her a plus one because as the MOH she will be...

StitchingBride, Aug 20, 2014 17 159
Leah
Help!! Wedding invitation misprint!!
Leah, on August 19, 2014 at 3:23 PM

Invitations were sent out with the wrong time of the ceremony!!! I'm freaking out!! What is the proper way to tell the guests the different time? Should I send out a little card with the correct time...

Northern MN, Aug 19, 2014 14 1,702
Shanice
What to call my 8 month old "Flower Girl"?!
Shanice, on August 19, 2014 at 12:30 PM

So I am having a rustic backyard wedding. I am not having a flower girl or ring bearer during my ceremony, instead I will have my 8 month old daughter pushed down the aisle in a decorated stroller...

StitchingBride, Aug 19, 2014 11 199
L + R
Sam's Club membership....
L + R, on August 19, 2014 at 11:25 AM

Can someone explain to me how this works? I purchase the membership, then I get the discount? I never shop there and it seems silly to purchase it when the discount equals the same amount as the...

rynney1979, Aug 19, 2014 15 75
DFG2014
Loestrin / microgestin birth control?
DFG2014, on August 18, 2014 at 5:27 PM

I just got prescribed loestrin birth control and was wondering if anyone else had taken it and what their experience was with it? I've never taken birth control before so I'm a little nervous!

DFG2014, Aug 18, 2014 15 111
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Dogs in the wedding Honeyfund and online RSVP- just do it!
pittielvr, on August 18, 2014 at 9:25 AM

We were married july 5th. It was a good day and I was happy with how everything turned out, well as much as I could be, considering i wanted to elope and only did the wedding to make FH happy. ANYWAY,...

Celia Milton, Aug 18, 2014 40 89
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How to Introduce Divorced Parents?
Caitlin, on August 18, 2014 at 3:11 PM

I have divorced parents who it is sometimes dangerous to even have in the same room together. I don't have a great relationship with my dad (I'm not sure if he's walking me down the aisle yet). How do...

Caitlin, Aug 18, 2014 12 3,082
MrsPope
Where will your children sit?
MrsPope, on August 17, 2014 at 8:02 PM

We have 1 daughter she will be almost 4yo at the wedding. I originally thought of a kids table, but there will only be 4 kids at the wedding 2 of them under the age 3. My second thought was to have...

Kianna, Aug 18, 2014 12 2,250
Jessica
Parking Pass??
Jessica, on August 18, 2014 at 10:43 AM

I am getting married in 10 weeks at a local State Park....I will be sending my invitations in 2 weeks, but I have run into a little issue. Just like at all State Parks you have a pay box at the entry,...

MizizAngi, Aug 18, 2014 8 128
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Guest RSVP'd "No" But Changed His Mind Days Before Wedding
Chels, on August 17, 2014 at 2:53 PM

Hey all, I am getting married tomorrow and there has been quite a bit of drama coming from the groom's parents. There was a guest who is a friend of the groom's dad who wasn't RSVPing even after the...

#BROTHERHOOD, Aug 17, 2014 17 1,037
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Mothers of the bride and groom processional
Private User, on August 15, 2014 at 12:03 PM

Are the mothers of the bride and groom part of the wedding processional or at what point do they walk down the aisle and who walks them down? Also, do they have their own music separate from the...

BunnyLove, Aug 16, 2014 11 6,975
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