Can someone explain to me how this works? I purchase the membership, then I get the discount? I never shop there and it seems silly to purchase it when the discount equals the same amount as the membership amount. I feel like I'll be wasting money.... I may have a friend that has a membership. Is it perfectly okay to ask to use theirs? I mean, I'll be paying for the flowers myself. I'm not asking them to buy them for me or anything.