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Danielle
Private ceremony BEFORE "wedding" day....how to tell guests?
Danielle, on April 1, 2016 at 10:49 AM

So FH and I have found that our wedding (4 months away) has created a lot of drama and distance between friends and family members, and a lot of stress and upset on the both of us. We are at the point...

Nonna T, Apr 1, 2016 34 5,656
Paige
How to include my grandpa in the ceremony/wedding?
Paige, on March 31, 2016 at 10:50 PM

Hi all! I'm getting married in September, and I'm trying to figure out how to include my grandfather, who is very important to me, in our ceremony (or just the wedding in general). I'm estranged from...

Nonna T, Apr 1, 2016 6 100
The Future Mrs. Reaves
Please give me some feedback. Plated Dinner vs Family Style
The Future Mrs. Reaves, on March 30, 2016 at 6:50 PM

FH and I are having our first tasting tomorrow. We were given an option I never knew existed. Our reception location is very elegant and I don't want people to stand in line to wait for food. So...

meg, Apr 1, 2016 38 3,881
K
HELP with Engagement Photo Location (Columbus)
Katie, on March 30, 2016 at 10:19 AM

I am struggling with finding places to get our engagement photos taken that aren't outside in a park or "country" looking area around Pickerington/Columbus. My fiance and I aren't outdoors country...

Kathleen Smith, Mar 31, 2016 4 133
TMNT Bride
vistaprint invitations..help?
TMNT Bride, on March 29, 2016 at 4:31 PM

I'm planning on ordering my invitations from vistaprint but I'm curious about their different paper options. Has anyone ordered invitations from vistaprint? What paper option did you choose? Were you...

CHEYENNE, Mar 31, 2016 20 544
R
What is the average people spend on a wedding shower gift?
Rachel, on March 31, 2016 at 11:43 AM

Don't include bridesmaids/parents in that.. Thanks!

MrsMorales, Mar 31, 2016 10 1,806
L
I need to VENT!!! People asking if they're invited to wedding!!
Latitia, on July 2, 2015 at 3:51 PM

Okay so I just need to vent. I already know the answer is to simply say "due to our budget and venue we have to keep our guest list at a certain number, our family is extremely large and we will not...

Latitia, Mar 31, 2016 30 4,131
Mrs. in PDX
Honoring those who can't be there
Mrs. in PDX, on March 28, 2016 at 8:22 PM

I recently lost my uncle to cancer. He was only 31 so we were pretty close in age and grew up together, I never imagined he wouldn't be at my wedding. If people are open to sharing I would like to...

MrsPlasters, Mar 31, 2016 19 1,037
tasha
Student Photographers/Videographers.....
tasha, on November 16, 2011 at 7:57 PM

Hey Ladies, I do not know about most of you, but I am starting to go WAY OVER my allotted wedding budget. I am trying to find ways to cut costs. A few people have suggested to me to hire a student...

Freddy, Mar 31, 2016 20 858
Diana
Bridal Shower Thank you Wording
Diana, on March 30, 2016 at 7:08 PM

Hello everyone! I'm in the midst of writing my bridal shower thank you cards, and am having a bit of "writers block" regarding on how to word these properly. For instance, how can I properly word a...

sara, Mar 30, 2016 6 193
Swin.
No exit dress= Tacky?
Swin., on March 30, 2016 at 12:18 AM

So, my roommate always raves about how TACKY it is to leave the reception in your wedding dress, but to me it seems so cute. Is this a common occurrence? I don't want tons of people talking about me...

Laura, Mar 30, 2016 75 1,836
K
When life gives you lemons...
Kristy, on March 30, 2016 at 7:19 AM

My future husband and I have gone through a lot in the past week. He was diagnosed with a brain tumor and has had a brain biopsy to see what treatment is best. Of course his health comes first but now...

Kristy, Mar 30, 2016 18 760
M
Unwanted religious gifts
Mark & Jamie, on March 28, 2016 at 11:07 PM

I've read tons about unwanted gifts, easily returnable to Target, BBB or other retail stores. But what about religious gifts? A pushy family member recently criticized my choice to not add fine china...

EleanorRigby, Mar 30, 2016 27 1,277
Nano
Dessert Table - Sign for dessert time or not?
Nano, on March 30, 2016 at 11:10 AM

We are setting up a dessert table with a small cutting cake for us and mini cupcakes for everyone else. I'm debating whether it's necessary to put up a sign (something simple like "Dessert at 7:15")...

Nano, Mar 30, 2016 10 4,733
LauraM
Dress is 2 sizes too small...
LauraM, on March 29, 2016 at 10:07 PM

I planned on losing weight before my wedding day (which is in February btw). When I went to try on dresses, I fell in love with one that had been discontinued and couldn't be ordered. The problem? It...

Steph26, Mar 30, 2016 15 4,649
UnderTheJuneWillows
Do you invite your Hair/makeup pros?
UnderTheJuneWillows, on March 29, 2016 at 5:32 PM

I have hired a MUA and a hair stylist for my wedding. My stylist is an acquaintance/friend that I played recreational sports with. We haven't played together in more than a year. I went to her because...

OG Dianna, Mar 29, 2016 8 2,973
Jillian
How to handle difficult family members?
Jillian, on March 29, 2016 at 4:45 PM

So my FH's family is very opinionated to say the least. I love his family and have been close to them for the past 5 years, but they are so opinionated that it's driving us crazy! We are still...

Cupcake, Mar 29, 2016 12 265
Gettingmarriedin2016
Are you displaying your Engagement pictures at your reception?
Gettingmarriedin2016, on March 29, 2016 at 3:34 PM

Are you guys displaying your engagement pictures at your reception? I'm considering framing a few pictures, but don't know where to put them. We're not doing a slideshow. Just wanted to know what you...

FutureMrs.G, Mar 29, 2016 19 1,679
R
A death in my family and my wedding as a place for family to come together: advice?
rabb, on March 29, 2016 at 3:07 PM

My 28 year old cousin has been in hospice for a month and is probably not going to make it to this weekend given recent developments. Our family is totally devastated and it feels really wrong to be...

BvilleBride, Mar 29, 2016 12 1,375
Mariah
BEER - Keg, bottles or cans??
Mariah , on March 29, 2016 at 10:11 AM

The time is quickly approaching to purchase beer for the wedding! Just curious what route people are going?? Renting a Keg, purchasing cans or bottles? For a wedding of 160 just curious what my best...

MrsMcCoy, Mar 29, 2016 28 12,820
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