Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

How did you decide whether you wanted to customize or use traditional vows? My fiance and I have different opinions on what should be done.

My future SIL has mentioned several times that she would like to be part of our wedding. She wants to be a bridesmaid. I explained to here that I had already chosen who would be part of my WP. My...

So I had my final dress fitting today. The seamstress took a lot off from the bottom of my dress to adjust for my height and I'm a bit disappointed feeling like the dress has lost its shape and now...

Parents of bride are paying for entire wedding. No one has offered anything to help pay. Should I assume we will also be paying for the bar or is it ok to ask the grooms parents to pick that tab up? ...

I am having a sit down dinner and have been going back and forth with whether or not menu cards are necessary. What's the etiquette say?

On the "Invitations by Dawn" website, it lists proper etiquette for addressing an invitation unmarried couple, not living together as "send to the closer friend." That's incorrect, right? My FSIL...

This may be the stupidest question ever asked... So FH and I heard the song "perfect" by ed sheeran the other day and absolutely fell in love with it. It talks about his love for this girl and how...

Looking for advice and examples on the Head Table at the reception, because none of the standard traditional, sweetheart, or family really fit our wedding. ETA: Our families are VERY different and we...

I think I found my dress! I had a great experience with the stylist and made an appt to come back Saturday to try it on again with my mom & sister and maybe "say yes to the dress". It's $2100,...

One of my close friends of over 12 years is getting married 2 weeks before me. Despite my reservations, I am going to be a bridesmaid in her wedding (that's a different story that I don't want to get...

Do the flower girl and ring bearer stand up with with you at the ceremony? Or are they supposed to go back and sit with their parents?

So I was just wondering what the rest of you did for gifts for your in-laws. Did you and your significant other get a joint gift for them both, or individual gifts for each parent from both of you, or...

I think I've seen this discussion before, but I'm not sure what the answer is. I got an invite for a bridal shower today that says, "Bride is registered at Macy's and Pottery Barn" and then under that...

So I started off with four girls total (1 MOH and 3 BM's) About 6 months ago one of my BMs let me know she could not be in the wedding due to personal problems (too much to explain on here.) And I...

My family is ultraconservative and formal (and from another country), but FH's considerably larger family is casual, big partiers, big drinkers, and love to have a good time. We don't want to do a dry...

My uncle is officiating our wedding. The church we are using is not his church as we now live out of town from our family. He is not charging us to officiate the wedding, we are paying for his...

My FH has a 14 year old daughter. Since his mother will not be attending our wedding, we thought it'd be nice for him to do a father daughter dance with her. She's a little too cool these days being...

I see so many comments on here about father daughter dances, and your dads walking you down the aisle. I haven't spoken to my dad in five years, he isn't invited to my wedding, and I don't know if he...

I thought we just drive the night of to our honeymoon destination but we would get there until 1-2 am and wedding ends at 10 pm. A) get hotel in hometown night of? B) go to honeymoon destination night...