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Etsy shop dispute
vghjfcxgxfgdh, on June 14, 2017 at 6:36 PM

Has anybody ever had to open a case on Etsy? I ordered a wire hanger for dress pictures over a month ago and have not heard anything from the seller. When I go to click on the shop, it doesn't exist...

MissMisc, Jun 15, 2017 26 451
Cintia
Hotel Arrangements
Cintia, on June 14, 2017 at 9:45 PM

What hotel will you be staying at? What's everyone's arrangements for the hotel stay? If you're staying the night before-will anyone be in the room with you?

Chelsea, Jun 14, 2017 11 794
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Underage maid of honor
Jennifer, on June 14, 2017 at 1:45 AM

So my sister is 19 years old and she's the youngest in my bridal party. My other maid of honor with the rest of the bridesmaid planned a night out for some drinks for a bachelorette but now my mom is...

MrsB, Jun 14, 2017 26 1,065
ImpatientlyWaiting
Details Card/Insert
ImpatientlyWaiting, on June 14, 2017 at 7:49 PM

Can you share your details card? We have our hotel block information on it currently. I would rather use the space for other information instead of Directions. Advice on what to add? The reception is...

KRAIN, Jun 14, 2017 5 961
Lindsey
wedding on fathers day (6/17/18)
Lindsey, on June 14, 2017 at 12:45 AM

When we picked the venue we were so excited that we picked father day and didn't even realize it (oopsss) i liked another day first but they were already taken so I though 06/17/18 was also a cool...

milinovemberbride, Jun 14, 2017 33 3,025
howdoibride
Names on Save the Dates?
howdoibride, on June 14, 2017 at 2:01 PM

Quick etiquette question - do you have to use the bride and groom's full name on the Save the Date card? I'm sure that's traditional but I didn't know if there was some leniency nowadays. For example,...

RAG, Jun 14, 2017 15 9,660
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Is it acceptable to register and have a shower for a second wedding?
Katie, on June 14, 2017 at 11:12 AM

I have been hearing mixed reviews on whether or not it is acceptable to have a bridal shower and registry for a second wedding? I would love your input!

TheFutureMrsWalker, Jun 14, 2017 20 427
Mrs. Sponge
Black Tie Optional wedding
Mrs. Sponge, on June 14, 2017 at 2:27 PM

FH and I are going to a black tie optional wedding next month and I'm finding very mixed answers on what that actually means. Does anybody know what that means for dress code specifically?

Kelly King, Jun 14, 2017 43 2,616
Julia
Seating Chart Question
Julia, on June 14, 2017 at 3:09 PM

Hello everyone Just wondering what your thoughts are on this. For guests who are bringing a plus-one that I do not know personally, is it ok to put on the seating chart: "Table 5: John Smith and...

Kate, Jun 14, 2017 19 338
Danielle
Las Vegas Buffet Reception
Danielle, on June 14, 2017 at 12:42 PM

My fiance and I decided to have our wedding reception at the Cravings Buffet at The Mirage in Las Vegas - The Mirage is also where our ceremony is. We are having a tough time deciding if we should pay...

Sarah, Jun 14, 2017 14 592
Erin Wood
Which vendors do I feed?
Erin Wood, on June 13, 2017 at 2:10 PM

I've got 2 photographers, DJ, photo booth attendant, and videographer. EDIT- when I said "I've got" I meant I've got them on my list to feed. Am I missing anyone?

Erin Wood, Jun 14, 2017 31 992
Melissa
Step-Father of the groom???
Melissa, on June 13, 2017 at 8:36 PM

Anyone have any ideas on how to honor the step-father of the groom? FH's step-father doesnt have any children of his own and FH's biological father is not in the picture. (hasnt been since he was a...

KatieMBY, Jun 14, 2017 14 2,439
MrsVoegs17
Kay Jewelers - Diamond swappers?!
MrsVoegs17, on June 12, 2017 at 11:05 AM

FH purchased my E-ring at Sam's Club and we both purchased our bands last weekend from Kay Jewelers. We were talking to FMIL about our bands and she got all bent out of shape that we purchased from...

CindySue, Jun 14, 2017 26 8,448
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How do we tactfully invite adults only?
Vicki , on June 12, 2017 at 1:08 PM

We are currently planning my daughters upcoming wedding. We have no children under 18 on either side of the family. There will be no flower girl or ring bearer. Our plans are to throw an adult...

Natalie, Jun 14, 2017 38 3,078
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Welcome Party
Brittany, on June 13, 2017 at 6:25 PM

We are having a lot of guests from out of town and would like to do a Welcome Party - but can't afford to pay for anything else... If we say we're having a welcome party - will guests expect drinks to...

Mrs.VtoBe, Jun 14, 2017 6 2,411 2
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Tipping for wedding cake?
Kelly, on June 13, 2017 at 10:23 PM

I'm getting my cake from a bakery and picking it up instead of having it delivered. Do I need to tip?

Kelly, Jun 13, 2017 6 1,109
FutureMrs.Baskette
Mom is jealous of FILs
FutureMrs.Baskette, on June 13, 2017 at 2:17 AM

I'm not sure how to handle the situation, my mom seem to be jealous of my FILs. Me and my fiancé are paying for our wedding by ourselves, but his family is offering lots of help and we appreciate it....

FutureBennis, Jun 13, 2017 15 1,006
kirackle
Best Man insisting we pay for his tux
kirackle, on June 12, 2017 at 10:51 AM

Ugh, just needed a quick vent. Last night my FI's brother called him and point blank asked if we were paying for his tuxedo rental. He said he needed to know immediately. He went on to say that it was...

VC, Jun 13, 2017 29 1,364
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Bridesmaid Issues...advice?
Ashley, on June 12, 2017 at 6:16 PM

One of my bridesmaids used to date one of the groomsmen (it was a long relationship and he is not handling how it ended well) My fiance and I are much closer to the groomsman and see and hear from him...

cantwait4thedate, Jun 13, 2017 21 169
Yoomie
Joint Couple's Wedding Shower?
Yoomie, on June 12, 2017 at 5:59 PM

My FH family wants to throw us a joint Wedding Shower. Before planning my own wedding, I didn't know what a Bridal Shower was. How common is a Couple's Wedding Shower? Where are they usually held and...

Yoomie, Jun 13, 2017 24 1,337
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