After a going from a small wedding 20-50 to an overwhelming almost 200 my fiance and I have decided to cut the headache and have a courthouse wedding.
We know we love each other and just want to make it official. We don't have a lot of money right now and we would rather not go into debt for a celebration. Too many people had something to say and wanted to take over without financially supporting their vision.
We started planning but nothing is in stone. I will probably still have a shower because my Aunt had already started putting that together. We want to get married soon after the shower with probably just our children, parents and siblings (if work allows
So how do I break the news? not everyone will be happy but idc at this point. We talked it over and we are both excited about just getting married.