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Buying a house + planning a wedding
Baylee, on October 7, 2017 at 4:21 PM

My FH and I have been living with my parents. We planned to start house hunting sometime after the wedding so that we wouldn't be too stressed financially. But we would love to get out of my parents...

Sarah Katreen, Oct 9, 2017 22 150
Must Love Cats
DJ .. to leave bad review or not at all
Must Love Cats, on October 5, 2017 at 9:04 AM

Our wedding was Sunday and it was beautiful except for our DJ who kept messing things up. Not playing the ceremony music on time when I gave certain instructions when to start playing,...

Del, Oct 8, 2017 41 2,239
LanaKane
No alcohol for a daytime wedding?
LanaKane, on October 6, 2017 at 6:15 PM

Is it odd to offer a full open bar for a lunch reception? I just found out today it might be possible to have our bar open the whole reception instead of 3 out of 4 hours (YAY!!!). My friend thought...

MrsJohnsonToBe, Oct 7, 2017 27 724
Crystal
Flower Girl
Crystal, on October 4, 2017 at 4:28 PM

Is 16 months too young to be a flower girl?

FutureFuji, Oct 7, 2017 27 1,402
Monica
Dress Advice, would you cut out the clear fabric out?
Monica, on October 5, 2017 at 8:20 AM

Okay, so this is the only picture I found of my dress online and of course you can't see it here, but in red I showed where it would be. The dress has see-through/skin colored fabric in the chest and...

Mozabrat, Oct 6, 2017 32 3,853 1
Amy
Friends girlfriends at Bridal Showers
Amy, on October 5, 2017 at 9:54 AM

So FH and I both have seperate close male friends that we've been friends with for years. They are all in long term relationships (one engaged and one married even). My girls are starting to plan my...

Lynnie, Oct 6, 2017 21 1,096
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Second time bride!
Brittany, on October 5, 2017 at 6:00 PM

So I don't know if I'm over reacting because people say I shouldn't have a big wedding( I didn't with my first because it was a last minute decision) but I want my day to be special and really want it...

MrsRushinin2018, Oct 6, 2017 27 198
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My Maid of Honor Stop talking to me after my wedding!
Maria, on October 21, 2012 at 4:43 PM

My Maid of Honor and I have been friends for over 13 years. When I got engaged she just assumed that she was going to be my maid of honor. I really did not want to hurt her feelings because I knew she...

Elmtree, Oct 5, 2017 20 3,080
Maire
Is a 45 minute drive from ceremony to reception site unreasonable?
Maire, on October 5, 2017 at 1:43 PM

For the record I'm not keen on the idea. We would plan to have the reception start 45 minutes to an hour from the end of the ceremony so there'd be no real "gap" other than travel time. I just feel...

rica, Oct 5, 2017 30 2,377
FutureHennigan
Wedding guest transportation - bus driver tip?
FutureHennigan, on October 5, 2017 at 4:16 PM

Starting to get quotes for wedding guest transportation from our blocked hotel to the ceremony/reception venue. The quotes have a HUGE range - and some specifically mention that driver gratuity is not...

SleepytheDwarf, Oct 5, 2017 6 3,052
AndreaLily
Is it tacky if no one can hear your vows at your ceremony?
AndreaLily, on August 14, 2013 at 3:28 PM

We are having a beach ceremony and as you can imagine it will be hard to hear. Our coordinator suggested against a mic because in the past they tend to pick up the sound of the wind and ocean more so...

The Adventures of K&, Oct 5, 2017 29 989
Mrs. DeNigris
Champagne toast, or toast with what you have?
Mrs. DeNigris, on October 2, 2017 at 7:45 PM

The title says it all! Should we have a champagne toast, or should we just let people toast with the drink that they have? The champagne toast would be an additional $255. If it's needed, I'll...

Lauren, Oct 5, 2017 52 930 1
Must Love Cats
Thank you cards... no card or gift?
Must Love Cats, on October 5, 2017 at 8:55 AM

Our wedding was Sunday and we actually were in quite a bit of shock of those who didnt bring a card or a gift? Not to mention receiving $105 from a wealthy family of 4. And not even a card from...

JGCT, Oct 5, 2017 52 928
EdubbsWife™
How to ask very dear friends to sing in my wedding
EdubbsWife™, on April 21, 2011 at 12:04 PM

I want my best friend's mother and sister to sing in my wedding. They both have extraordinary voices! I am looking for a creative way to ask them. I used the card pictured below to ask my Bridesmaids....

Carrie, Oct 5, 2017 7 2,340
Cynthia
E-rings w/ small center stones
Cynthia, on October 4, 2017 at 1:19 AM

I received the first rude comment on the size of my diamond today. Hearts on Fire (the company that made my engagement ring) shared one of my photos and one fine gentlemen decided to share his...

Seale, Oct 5, 2017 72 658
Raechelle
Names on Invite?
Raechelle, on October 3, 2017 at 6:35 PM

Wondering who's name goes first and what names (full, just first, first and middle)? The premade one has the grooms first and last then the brides first and last. When I looked online it says bride...

Susan, Oct 5, 2017 16 955
Mozabrat
Registry or no registry for a second marraige? What to do?
Mozabrat, on October 4, 2017 at 8:10 PM

This is a second wedding. We were both married previously. Our first weddings were 20 years ago...so this is not a twice in a few years thing. Lol. The thing is, I wasn't planning on a registry. We...

Orchids, Oct 5, 2017 10 1,598
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Rehearsal Dinner favors?
Amanda, on October 4, 2017 at 10:50 PM

Is anyone giving favors at the rehearsal dinner? I was thinking of getting bottle openers made or wine glasses to give out? I know it seems over the top but everyone there will be close friends and...

MDEasternShoreBride, Oct 5, 2017 8 2,000
Amber
Uninvited Kids
Amber, on October 3, 2017 at 12:47 PM

Has anyone else had guests show up with kids even though they knew know kids were invited to the wedding? We're having no kids and my niece has a 5 yr old daughter and I was told by her sister that...

Mozabrat, Oct 4, 2017 21 321
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Hashtag ideas
Elizabeth, on October 4, 2017 at 3:36 PM

I need help with a hashtag!!! I'm struggling to come up with something unique for our wedding. I'll take the name Gutierrez, we have two daughters, been together for years.... help me!!!!

Vanessasaurus, Oct 4, 2017 4 598
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