Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

So I have a dilemma..FH's family is HUGE and my family is not quite as large. I would really love to invite the children of my cousins (who are travelling from out of state so their children kind of...

For hair and makeup trials, do you tip as if it were a regular appt? Just trying to plan ahead! Thanks y'all!

Hi everyone, how long did it take for your photographer and videographer to get your wedding photos and videos back to you? We hired a company to do engagement, photobooth, and wedding photo & video....

Did you have to pay money when you went for your cake tasting? I have never heard of this until today so I am just curious if this is the norm.

Hey all! I can't find any recent threads, or many that touch on this topic. FH and I are getting married in a private ceremony with immediate family only, with a large reception to follow. When we go...

Hey all I need your help! My FH doesnt care which day we go with and i'm having some trouble! We finally found our venue! we put down the deposit on wednesday, but the venue is 3500 itself for friday...

What are everyone's thoughts on cloth napkins with plastic plates and utensils?

Hey all! Has anyone planned a bilingual wedding when the majority of the guests does not speak/understand the other language? I am feeling so sad thinking that my mother and uncle/aunt won't be able...

Hi All, I had wanted to do something special to honor my wonderful grandmother, who has been gone for 8 yrs the end of this month. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas or anything special they're...

Originally we were going to have just escort cards, letting people know which table to sit and and they can pick a spot. I've always been under the impression people are adults and can seat...

I got engaged back in June and life has been crazy since. My grandmother passed away and my family has kind of been in limbo. I had originally wanted a July or September wedding next year but...

Our photographer is included in our venue package. Just got off the phone with him. He asked about the first look. I know it's popular. But I've always loved the grooms reaction when the bride first...

I asked my best friend of 7 years to be my MOH while on a trip I took her on for her bday. I refrained from talking about the wedding as much as I could and only mentioned it when we were having tasty...

Hi - I have been invited to attend an upcoming wedding. The issue is the ceremony is at 10am in one city (an hour away from where I live) and the reception is at 6pm in another city in the opposite...

Whk hasn't or plans to not have a DJ at their reception? Did it go okay? And what are some tips and tricks for not having one? Should we create a playlist and just let it role?

Hi everyone. What is the proper way to limit the in-laws guest list. My FMIL gave us a list of people which nearly doubled our guest list. My side of the family includes my parents (I have two sets my...

I know the pay for plate rule is outdated, but I am set to attend a morning wedding, and was just told there will be no formal meal served (just light appetizers) and drinks (just mimosas and...

Has anyone had this situation before? How did you approach it? So I have a friend who I am close to and I have informed her about my upcoming wedding details as she will be travelling from the UK to...

I'm having all my children and grandchildren in our wedding party. My granddaughters will be 19 13 11 and 7. Is the 7 year old too old to be a flower girl or should she be a junior bridesmaid and...

Did you give your bridal party plus ones for your rehearsal dinner? We are trying to book a venue for our dinner and getting a rough headcount/price, I originally assumed yes, but for the wedding I am...