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PBiazinha
VIP May 2018

NWR: Giving notice when you work remotely

PBiazinha, on August 8, 2017 at 3:55 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 10

Hello ladies and gents!

So, this is my turn to sweat, get anxious and not know what to do.

I have accepted a job offer yesterday and I am looking to give my notice on the 18th (next week). The thing is, I work remotely from another state.

What is the correct way to do it? Do I send an email to my supervisor and the CIO (I am an IT representative)? Do I call my boss?

I'm honestly very nervous about the job change happening right now that we took on so many financial responsibilities with the wedding, but I have been looking because I really need to walk away from the place where I am: not only I am mistreated by my co-workers in many occasions, but they are also so disrespectful! There are constant "jokes" and comments about women that I just cannot "un-hear" and it is getting too much for me - so all in all, I am nervous about the whole thing but I still don't want to burn bridges because I would like to keep them as a reference in case I ever need it.

eta: words

10 Comments

Latest activity by PBiazinha, on October 9, 2017 at 6:15 PM
  • muriel
    Champion June 2018
    muriel ·
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    Notice should be in writing, not by a phone call. I would send an email and follow it up with a hard copy letter.

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  • EngineerInLove
    VIP September 2018
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    Muriel I disagree, you should have a conversation with your manager first. You don't need to explain why you're leaving or where you're going, but it's a professional courtesy to have that conversation. Ask them what you should do to give official notice then, whether it's just an email to your manager or CIO

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  • MrsRies&Love
    VIP May 2018
    MrsRies&Love ·
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    Most companies require a written notice, so I would just send an email. Possibly follow it up with a hard copy letter like Muriel suggested!

    I would just briefly express your regret in the letter if you want to keep them as references.

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  • BeachBride2016
    Master November 2016
    BeachBride2016 ·
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    You'll definitely need to give your notice in writing, but I would suggest first calling to let them know of your decision and then tell them you'll be sending them an email with your official resignation in writing for their records.

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  • PBiazinha
    VIP May 2018
    PBiazinha ·
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    Is that usually done at the end of the work day?

    I mean, it will be a Friday and he doesn't always leave at the same time, of course I can always reach him on his cellphone but I am not sure I want to go that route - what would you do?

    Working in IT usually means termination effective immediately because of the amount of information involved, so I would be ending the day as soon as we hung up.

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  • Katie
    Master October 2016
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    If you think you will be terminated immediately definitely give the notice in writing so that you have a copy.

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  • AdventuresofRuth
    VIP October 2017
    AdventuresofRuth ·
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    I would call your boss then send the email with the notice just after you actually tell them "in person." If I were on site and submitting my notice I would meet with my boss with the letter in hand and tell them I am leaving and submit the written notice then also. If I was remote, I would do the best I could to approximate my ideal. So, I would call and send the email simultaneously. If you think he might leave early that day, make an actual appointment with him for a phone meeting.

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  • PBiazinha
    VIP May 2018
    PBiazinha ·
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    Thank you all! Sometimes is hard to organize the thoughts and you make it so much more clear. Thank God for WW.

    Yes, I will schedule a call with him, send him the email following the call.

    Crossing fingers it goes smooth!

    Thank you very much!

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  • Athena
    Devoted October 2017
    Athena ·
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    I had a phone conversation with an e-mail follow up and several phone calls after trying to convince me to stay. Best decision I have ever made (except getting married to FH)

    ETA: I swear it's still Monday!

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  • PBiazinha
    VIP May 2018
    PBiazinha ·
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    I just came back to thank you all! I have been so overwhelmed with everything I forgot to update you all that it went so much easier than I thought. I wrote a nice e-mail to my supervisor and the CIO (would be the highest person above me which I ever communicated while in the company) then I called my supervisor and explained to hm that I was leaving. I was very honest and thanked him and the company for my professional and persona growth (I learned a lot, really), at the end of the call I let him know I was going to be sending the official e-mail communicating that I was resigning.

    It was all good, the two weeks after were a little awkward with a few co-workers but with the ones really above me the tension was over and we had good conversations leading to my final days,

    Anyway - I think we usually sweat more than necessary but I am thankful for every single one of you who gave me advice ! I am now working for a new company but still looking for a different position, all in all, I will now remember the not-so-horrible experience when time to move on comes around again!

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