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Brianna
Chronically late??
Brianna, on October 17, 2017 at 2:33 PM

My fiances family is always late...to everything. Our engagement party was put together by my mom and hosted at a restaurant so we could all get celebrate together with lunch. Well, it started at 12...

Tricia, Oct 18, 2017 58 1,403
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Wedding on a Thursday ?
Sasha, on October 17, 2017 at 3:42 PM

I just found a beautiful Venue and they have an amazing price for a wedding on Thursdays. Need some thoughts on having a wedding on a Thursday? All venues in Miami, FL are way over my budget even to...

Sasha, Oct 18, 2017 30 1,658
AlmostMrsB
thumbtack???
AlmostMrsB, on August 15, 2016 at 1:44 PM

Quick question! Has anyone successfully used thumbtack to book their vendors?? I seen someone mention it the other day, took a shot & made an account. long story short I found someone on their who...

AlmostMrsB, Oct 18, 2017 48 2,162
Jennifer
Tipping your photographer?
Jennifer, on October 17, 2017 at 7:16 AM

Hey WW! We are taking our engagement photos today (YAYY!!) They will being taken by our wedding photographer, she includes an engagement session in her photography packages. My question: is it...

Emily, Oct 17, 2017 8 702
shayandbae
Going clubbing the night before your wedding?!
shayandbae, on October 16, 2017 at 9:42 PM

My bestfriend is having a celebration of union this Saturday and talking about having a girls night the night before when we have to be at the church ready by 12pm the next day. Mind you she's already...

Mrs. Fall Bride, Oct 17, 2017 27 128
Rachel
Adults only reception...babysitting?
Rachel, on October 17, 2017 at 11:30 AM

I know there are a lot of forums about adults only receptions, but this is slightly different. Long story short, one side of my extended family has a lot of kids and most people on that side live out...

Emily, Oct 17, 2017 5 134
Monica
Rehearsal Dinner on Thursday or Friday Etiquette
Monica, on October 17, 2017 at 9:06 AM

I was always under the impression they were on Thursday because most venues have weddings on Friday, but a few of my BMs were kind of like "Thursday, really?". My wedding is on a Saturday and the...

Meagen, Oct 17, 2017 19 1,547
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Save the date - social media
Future Mrs. Q, on October 16, 2017 at 6:53 PM

So my wedding date is 10/20/18. Almost a year! My FH and I want to take our save the date/engagement pictures this fall, probably in November to keep the theme of fall as that's what our wedding theme...

Rosered, Oct 17, 2017 16 2,386
Leila
Birthdays and weddings
Leila, on October 13, 2017 at 4:36 PM

On my wedding day it will be one of my guest's birthday . The guest is my former coworker/ friend's husband. I went to their wedding a year ago . I am not particularly close to her husband . My...

Juliet, Oct 17, 2017 25 181
Erin
Inviting someone who invited me to their wedding?
Erin, on April 23, 2017 at 1:32 PM

Hi everyone, I am getting married on 9/16/17. We are trying to keep our wedding as intimate as possible, not only for the cost, but also for the feel of the day. I have a large family, so that has...

Celine, Oct 16, 2017 10 2,497
Nikki
How do you politely turn down a bridesmaid?
Nikki, on October 16, 2017 at 5:14 PM

My fiances brother recently got married. At the wedding the bride told me she'd love to be a bridesmaid at our wedding. I said yeah sure not thinking about it. But now that I've had time to think...

CJ325, Oct 16, 2017 6 134
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Bridal Shower for a closed ceremony if reception is the same day?
Kelly, on October 16, 2017 at 10:54 AM

I am considering (still weighing all the options) of having a closed wedding ceremony in my home church with siblings, parents, and grand parents only. Later, the same day, we plan to host a larger...

MrsWrs, Oct 16, 2017 6 378
Sarah
Please Explain The Tiered Concept
Sarah, on October 16, 2017 at 1:48 PM

So we've all seen the post today about the wrist bands and bars... I saw a lot of people referencing a tiered guest list or something of that nature. Can somebody explain this to me? Obviously you...

GymRat, Oct 16, 2017 15 2,079
Light Haired Girl
Late night snack
Light Haired Girl, on October 16, 2017 at 12:07 PM

Dinner starts at 6:15ish ends around 7:30ish. We have to be out of the venue by 11pm. Would 9pm/9:30pm be too early for a late night snack? We were thinking of having the caterer bring out pizza or a...

Ashley, Oct 16, 2017 19 1,530
mataDC
Should I announce NOT changing my name?
mataDC, on October 14, 2017 at 5:33 PM

I'm the bride (well, BAM) and not changing my last name which is something I feel very strongly about. Several people have asked if I'm changing my name or not. One of my reception guests said she...

mataDC, Oct 16, 2017 50 188 1
ErynneLynn
2nd Marriage & Invitations
ErynneLynn, on February 3, 2010 at 11:12 AM

ACK!! Help PLEASE! This is my 2nd marriage (first real wedding) and I am not sure how to do the wording for my name. I really don't want to put my 'current' last name which is my ex's... but putting...

Lucretia, Oct 15, 2017 12 5,392
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Groom's hat with sentimental meaning
Megan, on October 15, 2017 at 4:28 PM

My fiancee has a newsboy style hat that belonged to his grandpa that passed away. We both really want to work it into his attire for the wedding but are unsure how. Can he wear it during the ceremony?...

Megan, Oct 15, 2017 13 89
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Facebook Name Change
Maria, on October 15, 2017 at 5:48 AM

This may be a silly question, but is it ok to change my name on Facebook right after the wedding? I won't officially be going through the name change process yet with social security, DMV etc, but my...

Shannon, Oct 15, 2017 30 1,823
MrsGtoBe
Signing marriage license during ceremony
MrsGtoBe, on October 14, 2017 at 9:51 PM

Has anyone signed their marriage license during their ceremony? My FH and I are going to be taking communion during our ceremony and I was thinking about signing the marriage license during that time...

Mrsbdg, Oct 14, 2017 16 1,124
Kayla
Pastor gifts
Kayla, on October 14, 2017 at 7:51 AM

Our pastor is marrying us and he is a very important person in our lives. We want to get him a nice gift for marrying us but are on a budget as well. Any ideas for nice but affordable gifts for...

Celia Milton, Oct 14, 2017 10 1,411
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