Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello, For our wedding, we will not be having a wedding party. Both my fiancé and I didn't want to burden anyone with $ or responsibilities (we're having difficulties asking favors or help...

My FH and I know a bartender from a local bar that we have become close with the past 2 years. She offered to bartend our wedding free of charge. So we just supply everything and she will show up and...

I just got invited to a wedding "black tie preferred". I'm SO confused. Google said to wear the best clothes I have and then WW said guest need to rent a tux/wear a gown . I wasn't thinking this...

Hello all, When is the best time to send out a 'Save the Date' ? Getting hitched 10/10/21 💕🍾 And what should be included besides: "Formal invitations to follow" ?? I've read different etiquette rules...

So, I need advice... We originally planned our big day for September 2021 but due to Covid we decided to postpone it until June 2022 to (hopefully) accommodate 200-250 guests. We have now planned a...

Hi all! My Fiance and I are planning an intimate celebration on October 10th, 2021!! How do I politely let my guests know that children are not allowed? I want my guests, that are parents, to really...

Hi - I'm completely stuck on bridesmaids. My fiancé has plenty of friends and choices, but I on the other hand don't have friends to be there. I drifted away from everyone because of constant drama...

Hello! So my best friend of 9 years is getting married, and she appointed me to be her MOH. However, she lives in Tennessee and I live in Maine, and it's been like this for about 7 years (we've stayed...

Hey guys, So my FH’s cousin wants to be involved in the wedding, and I’m very excited for her to be. She’s always been extremely excited by the relationship and is sometimes more excited about my...

So quick poll...I have a gorgeous ring that I never want to take off. Who here sleeps with their rings on or doesn't and why? What's the protocol here?

Hello! Wondering if I should send the RSVP card with the save the date? Is this too early? I have anxiety around sending the RSVP card with the invitation and finding out only a couple months before...

Hello All, I am wondering if it is appropriate to send two batches of save the dates. One batch, sent earlier, for friends and family that live out of the country and will be traveling to join us for...

If you have or are planning on doing what I call a "memory chair" (some people call it something else) where you decorate a chair in memory or in symbolism for someone who died or could not be there...

When should my fiancé and I send out formal invites? If we sent out the, 'Save the Dates', 6 months to our wedding date , which is October 10th, 2021. ( wedding is Local to all. ) A close friend...

Hey Ladies, I sent out my save the dates and I'm getting ready to send the invites out, but FH doesn't want to invite some people we already sent save the dates to. I don't know what the proper thing...

I will try and keep this brief but as detailed as possible. My two best friends are serving as MOHs to my wedding in October. I couldn’t pick one so I chose both. I’ve known both the same amount of...

My mom called me yesterday absolutely furious because she’d gone onto our wedding website and randomly started putting different guest names in as if she were RSVP’ing and discovered that every single...

Hello! I'm still way off from my wedding or having any sort of paper (save the date, invitations, programs, menus) printed but I have been researching "wording etiquette" so that I know what to put on...

I'm trying to figure out what to do because it looks as though our party numbers will be uneven. I think I'm going to end up with one more lady on my side then he has men. So I'm not sure how to work...

Help, please! So my fiancé and I made the decision to postpone our wedding reception to next year. We are still getting married this year with just immediate family. But we’re having a vow renewal and...