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Laudie
Buying Silverware/Dishes
Laudie, on March 25, 2013 at 4:47 PM

Does anyone have experience buying silverware/dishes instead of renting? I'm wondering if it would be cheaper to buy in bulk and then resell to another bride-to-be. I just want standard silverware and...

Combay, Mar 28, 2013 7 1,195 1
Emily
3 cousins who are sisters but I only want to invite 2 of them
Emily, on March 27, 2013 at 1:34 PM

Im inviting my aunt and my 2 cousins, however the oldest i do not want to invite. She is not a part of my life. I saw her 2 months ago at my fathers funeral before that it had been years before we...

MrsRight, Mar 28, 2013 19 475
MrsO
Would someone's family keep you from wanting to marry them?
MrsO, on March 27, 2013 at 5:11 PM

I see a lot of posts on here complaining about in-laws. Some are minor problems which everyone is bound to encounter at some point. Other posts are much more serious. It got me thinking... Would...

Brandi, Mar 27, 2013 35 1,596
Laura
Cash bar for the rehearsal dinner-is this ok?
Laura, on March 27, 2013 at 4:48 PM

Our rehearsal dinner is at a brewery, and adding the open bar option for 2 hours makes it the same price as food and doubles our costs. I know a brewery invites drinking, but an open bar might be too...

Laura, Mar 27, 2013 18 1,764
Cally
Snooty to Register ONLY at Bloomingdales?
Cally, on March 26, 2013 at 7:56 PM

FH and I registered at Bloomingdales, and have selected a range of items. BUT FMIL says its "snooty and inconsiderate" to not do a BBB or Macys. I do not want to expand to other stores, I have what I...

Brittany, Mar 27, 2013 14 137
Jocelyn
military and sudden deployment, "ceremony" now and reception later?
Jocelyn, on December 20, 2012 at 6:14 PM

SO! my FH is in the military and we got engaged last month. originally his contract would have been up next october, giving us the option of a november wedding, which worked perfect with us. now he...

Abby, Mar 27, 2013 6 989
MrsKAllTheWay
How to tell the bride you're not paying for makeup
MrsKAllTheWay, on March 27, 2013 at 10:31 AM

Without delving too far into the back story, I am a bridesmaid for a friend's wedding in June and things are getting pretty expensive. She has already asked us to pay over $200 for a dress,...

Just Reenski, Mar 27, 2013 37 1,382
Tracey
What is a "reading"?
Tracey , on March 26, 2013 at 10:17 PM

Please don't laugh.. but i have been to very few weddings and the ones i have been to were many years ago. I have no idea what a "reading" is. Shed some light?

HisMrs, Mar 27, 2013 13 7,126
FutureMrsKruse
12:30 pm Cake & Punch Reception for Church Guests Ideas
FutureMrsKruse, on March 26, 2013 at 6:17 PM

Our ceremony is at 11 am and we are having a nuptial mass so I think it will take 1 hr 20 min or so. That means the start of our cake and punch reception for the church guests would start around...

mrsg, Mar 26, 2013 14 405
Amy
Bridal Shower Games and Order
Amy, on March 26, 2013 at 12:40 PM

Hi everyone! So not only am I planning my own wedding, but I'm a bridesmaid in my friend's wedding July! We are planning her shower for early May and need some ideas on cute (not corny)...

KristnH, Mar 26, 2013 6 306
Jaclyn
how to tell non r.s.v.p.'s they are no longer invited.
Jaclyn, on March 22, 2013 at 11:05 AM

Most people are from out of town. but i worry that they just might show un-announced. so i wanted to send them a note (email) telling them that since they have missed 2 dead lines to r.s.v.p. , they...

Married, Mar 25, 2013 19 27,010 2
Mrs. S™
It's official - Target registries suck!
Mrs. S™, on March 25, 2013 at 10:24 AM

Really, they do. Do your guests a favor and register somewhere else. My friend had her baby shower this weekend. I went to 2 Targets in the area, and those kiosks with registries didn't work. So one...

Future Mrs. Whitty, Mar 25, 2013 27 812
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2 Months 'Til Wedding - Getting Serious Cold Feet
Sophia, on March 25, 2013 at 11:17 AM

My wedding is in 2 months and my fiancee and I have been fighting a lot lately, about the wedding, and about a lot of stupid little stuff. We had a huge fight this morning about something really...

Courtney, Mar 25, 2013 29 448
BunBuns
Knee length dress for church wedding?
BunBuns, on March 24, 2013 at 10:32 PM

Do you think this will be OK? The church doesn't have any kind of "dress code", but I don't want to offend anyone.

BunBuns, Mar 25, 2013 14 1,540
D
Will guests come to a wedding on a Friday during Lent?
Diane, on March 23, 2013 at 6:57 PM

I want to get married Friday March 14th of 2014. The issue I'm having is that my fiance is thinking that some of his family might not come because its a friday during Lent. I know there is a...

Karen, Mar 25, 2013 13 1,797
T
SIster in Law Flower Girl Etiquette
Taryn, on March 24, 2013 at 1:21 PM

My future sister in law is going to be my MOH, her husband is a groomsmen and her 4 year old daughter will be a flower girl. We chose one little girl to be a flower girl from my fiances side and one...

MrsRight, Mar 25, 2013 21 918
Aronna
invites-is it still 'not ok' to invite people without their spouses? kind of a touchy subject......
Aronna, on March 20, 2013 at 4:54 PM

If memory serves, the last time I did this it was considered inappropriate to invite someone without inviting their spouse. My wedding is in my hometown and I'll be inviting a lot of former classmates...

Brittany, Mar 24, 2013 29 4,173
B
wedding registry with kids
Bonnie, on March 21, 2013 at 12:24 PM

Hello so we have 3 children and have lived together already a while. We are updated all of our stuff in our place. What do you think about registering for children's stuff like new comforter sets?

Private User, Mar 24, 2013 13 1,786
Rachel
Tiny Ceremony, Drop-In Reception, Proper Invite Etiquette??
Rachel, on February 8, 2013 at 4:53 PM

Ok we're getting married in August and we're on a TINY budget so we plan to have a very small and intimate ceremony followed by a drop-in reception for everyone else. So what is the proper etiquette...

Rachel, Mar 24, 2013 22 6,085
Mrs. DooPwee
Wording for "Guest Book" Sign
Mrs. DooPwee, on March 24, 2013 at 12:19 PM

So I found this nice white hinged shadow box at TJMaxx on clearance for 16.00 and decided I'd use that for our guest book. It's got tack board inside and I'm making business cards on VP for guests to...

Over the Top♥, Mar 24, 2013 1 417
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