Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I was surprised to find out that a lot of people thought cash gifts and honeymoon registries are rude, and that people would feel that strongly about it! My family is Chinese and in Chinese culture...

We are having our favorite local Italian restaurant cater (they also have a catering side to the restaurant). Unfortunately since my wedding is not til next year I don't think they want to discuss...

Besides the MOH and Bestman, and fathers and mothers who else is supposed to make speeches? And at the rehearsal dinner and reception? Does this mean MOH and Bestmsn would have to come up with two...

So my invitations were beautiful (albeit with minor mistake made by the etsy seller), but the customer service was lacking, and definitely put a damper on my experience with the seller. I let this be...

My fiancé and I are having a very small wedding with only immediate family (40 guests) . My mom called me today to say that my step-grandmother was hurt that I didn't invite her. I've known her since...

Hi All, My family is super close so I have my 13 year old sister as my MOH and my FH has my 2 younger brothers (17 and 14) in his party. My question concerns their gifts. My FH was thinking engraved...

Nicks grandma is 85 and been widowed for 10 years, is it proper etiquette to add and guest to her invitation or will it just make her sad?

Our reception is around lunchtime btw. We have lots of places in this area that have really nice, fancy sandwiches. Or would that seem silly?

Hi lovelies! My FH and I are having a Tolkien inspired (the first gift my FH gave me was a collector's edition of The Hobbit) wedding in lovely Woodinville Washington Memorial day weekend and I'm so...

Our RSVP date was May 16th. We received a couple no's and have space to invite some friends from our "maybe" list. What is the correct and most polite way to do this without it coming across as though...

Our Best Man informed us he is bringing a date to the wedding ( totally fine - we gave him a plus one). No one has met her and they aren't actually dating. I suggested to FH that we invite her to the...

I had my mind set. I wasn't going to invite any of my co-workers except my best friend who is the receptionist for the bank we are housed in (I work for a brokerage firm housed inside of a bank). I...

Am I being super creepy if I began to set up my wedding website this week? I don’t intend to give it out until late this year, but I am beginning to edit it when I’m bored. I’ll just be updating...

We sent out about 90 invitations and accounted for roughly 188 guests, and so far only 57 have RSVP's. We went through and looked at who was likely to come and who we knew for certain wouldn't come...

My ceremony is outside, in a park, under a pavilion. our guests will be seated under the pavilion in rows of chairs like normal. i got bubbles for the guests to blow afterwards because ive always...

So, we have a guest list of 146. A total of 34 are out of state/country. Ideally we wanted to meet a min of 100. I keep looking at the guest list and think what if we had 140…. yikes. I don't think it...

My step daughter's mom, grandma, grandpa and teenage cousin were T-boned by a drunk driver this weekend at over 110kms(65miles) per hour. They are in hospital with internal bleeding, breaks bruises...

FH and I met with our priest yesterday to start planning our ceremony. I have always, always pictured walking down the aisle by myself. I don't have a good relationship with my father, to the point...

As a bride and a bridesmaid, you BRIDEZILLAS need to be slapped 500x. LOL. I am in a wedding on Friday and throughout the whole process the bride has been the most inconsiderate, arrogant, bratty...

Fiance and I have decided on a destination wedding as we are on a strict budget and have emotional ties to the location. So far everyone involved seems to be very excited, however, after talking to my...