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Laura M
Well there goes that venue choice holy s**t!
Laura M, on May 7, 2012 at 11:33 AM

I wanted an idea of how much this particular venue would cost for 60 guests. Is it just or is this absolutely insane?! A) core package comes to 17.9K tax and includes: - full wedding coordination (we...

Jazzy, Sep 3, 2015 36 1,638
Lauren73016
Invited to Bachelor Party...not on wedding guest list
Lauren73016, on September 3, 2015 at 2:43 PM

I was talking to FH's BM yesterday and he gave me the list of guys invited to FH's bachelor party (long weekend snowboarding in Vermont in January). It mostly consists of the GMs and a few other guys...

JCB, Sep 3, 2015 10 1,554
Yasmina
Wedding Day food: What to eat while getting ready?
Yasmina, on August 31, 2015 at 5:10 PM

Well, I decided that its probably a good idea for me to start piecing together a timeline for the day of my wedding. I have plenty of time to tweak it if I need to, but I started thinking... If I get...

Happily Married, Sep 2, 2015 36 5,447
Sarah
Tracking Down RSVPs - How?
Sarah, on September 1, 2015 at 4:51 PM

Our RSVP deadline is today and we're still missing quite a few. I'm planning to start contacting people tomorrow since we have to give our final numbers and seating chart to our coordinator on the...

Kelly, Sep 1, 2015 16 378
MrsMcD
Any honeymoon regrets??
MrsMcD, on September 1, 2015 at 4:20 PM

So today is the last day of our honeymoon. We're leaving in the morning to go home. We originally wanted a destination wedding but didn't feel comfortable asking people to travel so far for our...

Nicole, Sep 1, 2015 21 275
EatKnitRun
When People Not Invited Ask About the Wedding
EatKnitRun, on September 1, 2015 at 11:03 AM

What do you do? Now that we are finalizing and cutting our guest list in preparation to send STDs even fewer of our friends are on the final list. Usually when people ask about wedding planning they...

Mrs. P, Sep 1, 2015 23 3,879
C
Are you offended by "Pretty Princess Days"?
Cherry, on July 25, 2013 at 7:37 PM

I have been reading some posts on tk and I saw that most of the ladies didn't like them. Some of them are even offended by them. Which made me think (I know some of you here already frequent tk), what...

Cindy, Sep 1, 2015 64 3,312
bina1015
How far is the rehearsal dinner from church or ceremony location
bina1015, on August 26, 2015 at 11:07 AM

I'm still having a hard time on deciding on where to host the rehearsal dinner at. I was trying to keep it close to our church but not liking the restaurants in the area. I'm thinking of looking at...

OriginalKD, Sep 1, 2015 22 250
Anna =)
Wedding & Honeymoon while he is in grad school?
Anna =), on September 1, 2015 at 9:47 AM

We are getting married in October 2016. We have our venue and photographer booked for October 1st. My fiance has decided to go to grad school (after we already booked our date). Our first priority is...

Anna =), Sep 1, 2015 11 1,304
T
Dad's Girlfriend Drama
T, on August 3, 2015 at 2:59 PM

My dad has been dating a woman for a little over a year, & she is angry that I won't let her be announced at the reception with my dad. So angry in fact, that she is trying to drive a wedge between my...

T, Aug 31, 2015 64 547
Sandy
Paying for food tasting?!
Sandy, on August 31, 2015 at 12:00 PM

Has anyone heard of this? I got a little upset when my venue told me that they charge you to taste their food. Because I'm spending how much money doesn't seem to matter. Also, my package included two...

Delisa, Aug 31, 2015 18 15,784
MrsND
NWR: They ran out of food!?
MrsND, on August 31, 2015 at 9:58 AM

I attended a Quinceañera (Hispanic girls sweet 15) this weekend and I know it isn't the same as a wedding but it might as well be. With a guest list of at least 300. We went to the Catholic mass at 2...

FFW, Aug 31, 2015 10 800
Tina L.
How are you reminding people to rsvp?
Tina L., on August 30, 2015 at 5:30 PM

I don't want to post anything on social media our rsvps are due in 2 weeks and have only got back 1/3rd i dont have time to call people to remind them im at the point where if i dont have a rsvp by...

Sarah, Aug 31, 2015 11 564
Brittany
Dad & stepdad walking down the isle... Dad is not happy
Brittany, on February 19, 2015 at 8:33 PM

So my original plan until this past Sunday was to have my dad and stepdad walk me down the isel to give me away... My parents have been divorced since I was 3 and both are remarried. My stepdad has...

FutureMrsO, Aug 31, 2015 56 2,208
P
Plus one seating plan
Private User, on August 18, 2015 at 7:20 PM

Hi, I need help. We just got RSVPs back. We did not put "and guest" on invites, just individual names, but a lot come back with a "2" and no name on the RSVP card of who the "plus one" is. We figured...

OriginalKD, Aug 30, 2015 5 427
MeowMeow
Mrs. vs Ms.
MeowMeow, on August 29, 2015 at 8:52 AM

Hello! I won't be changing my maiden name, and was wondering what people did on the Mrs. or Ms. front. I know that Mrs. usually represents that you are Mrs. Husbands last name, but I wasn't sure if...

OMW, Aug 29, 2015 22 1,582
Camden273
First Look and Cocktail Hour
Camden273, on August 28, 2015 at 3:33 PM

Okay so for those of your doing a first look...are you still going to have a cocktail hour? We are planning it so that we arrive at the venue at 3, FH and I have our first look/pictures for about an...

Sparkles, Aug 29, 2015 27 605
Danielle
No RSVP, No seat?
Danielle, on August 26, 2015 at 3:54 PM

So we're finally decided we're going to just do website rsvps. What if really like to know is for the people who are already married did you leave an extra table for people who might show up and...

Monica SC, Aug 29, 2015 13 1,864
N
Small wedding big venue
Nicole, on August 29, 2015 at 1:11 AM

Hello I invited 140 people To my wedding but a lot of people are out of state so I'm expected to have only 75 people there. The venue is a decent size venue I had to pay for a min of 100 people and...

DRGCAS, Aug 29, 2015 2 315
purplekitten
Question about welcome bags in a different country
purplekitten, on August 28, 2015 at 2:53 PM

So as I'm putting together the things I want to order for the welcome bags for my wedding in Mexico, I'm starting to wonder: is customs or the TSA going to get upset that I have a suitcase full of two...

Devin94, Aug 28, 2015 3 1,284
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