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Roles for sisters
Danyelle, on September 7, 2015 at 6:51 PM

My sisters are quite a bit older than me and I want them part of my wedding day but not necessarily as bridesmaids. We are not having a religious wedding so having one of them do a reading wouldn't...

Annette, Sep 17, 2015 7 233
AutumnBride
No inner envelope?
AutumnBride, on July 29, 2015 at 1:48 PM

I received our wedding invitations yesterday (Yay! Go vistaprint!) and am beginning to assemble them. I am realizing that I never ordered inner envelopes- I never even planned on using them- I am...

Shieva, Sep 16, 2015 21 3,318
Yasmina
KWR: Why do people get SO butthurt...
Yasmina, on September 14, 2015 at 1:33 PM

...over NOT being invited to something when you are NOT close to the person? So yesterday was my goddaughter's first birthday party. It was a family event. His family is huge, and the whole family...

SavesSpiders, Sep 16, 2015 18 624
MrsLaurenET
Entourage at Bridal Gown Shopping?
MrsLaurenET, on September 14, 2015 at 10:35 AM

I am interested to hear if anyone has had a positive experience bridal gown shopping with 6 people. There are six people who have made it known to me that they'd like to go with me shopping (mom, MOH,...

MrsSA2B, Sep 15, 2015 16 273
Elia
The 2 Year Engagement
Elia, on September 14, 2015 at 9:02 PM

I'm new to this whole engaged thing and have been pouring over the calendar to see when I would like to get married. I've basically decided the months of September and May are my favorite but due to...

Amanda730, Sep 15, 2015 32 183
Anna =)
Thank you gifts for bride's parents and groom's parents?
Anna =), on September 15, 2015 at 10:41 AM

My mother and step dad are paying for our venue, cake, and catering ($5000). My father and his girlfirend are giving us $2500, and my future in laws are paying for the rehearsal dinner,...

Nilou, Sep 15, 2015 3 164
Esmerelda
Receiving Lines vs. Visiting Tables
Esmerelda, on September 12, 2015 at 8:49 AM

Hi, I'm new to WW. I am the mother of the bride, and doing the bulk of the wedding planning work as my daughter and her fiancé are in their last years of college and working. I have read several...

Private User, Sep 15, 2015 19 2,160 1
Lynnie
Best way to tell a vendor you won't be hiring them??
Lynnie, on September 14, 2015 at 3:07 PM

So I'm ready to book the wedding planner that I'm going to hire, but I'm wondering what the best way is to communicate to the other 4 planners I spoke with that I will not be hiring them. When I spoke...

Rosemary, Sep 15, 2015 12 868
bina1015
Stretching peep toes shoes
bina1015, on September 15, 2015 at 2:22 PM

So many of you know my shoes struggles. I found a great pair that are wide and a very small heel but the peep toe section is tight. Do you have any advice on how to stretch it a little bit. I know of...

bina1015, Sep 15, 2015 6 1,040
purplekitten
How much to tip photographer?
purplekitten, on September 14, 2015 at 5:19 PM

I'm trying to plan how much cash I need to bring on the wedding trip. Here's the details about the photographer: - In Mexico - Photographer is not owner or part-owner of the photography company (as...

Willie Hooper, Sep 15, 2015 11 5,493
Taylor
Two friends, two weddings, one month, one revoked bridesmaid
Taylor, on September 14, 2015 at 11:24 PM

Got engaged in July and was immediately set on having my wedding in Oct. 2016. A good friend just started planning her wedding and I found out after already picking out a date of my own that hers...

Lynnie, Sep 15, 2015 16 106
Katherine
court house then wedding?
Katherine, on June 29, 2013 at 11:14 PM

My fiance' and I are thinking about getting married at the court house soon and then having our wedding on March 1,2014. We have already sent out our save the dates and everything. We want to get...

Lindy, Sep 15, 2015 83 3,690
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Chatty Cathy's during the first dance?
m, on September 14, 2015 at 11:05 AM

I went to a friends wedding this weekend that was reception only - they had a private, family only cermony beforehand. Something I noticed though, and it's been a while since I've been to a wedding...

Original VC, Sep 14, 2015 18 747
bina1015
Show me your...Day of Timeline
bina1015, on September 9, 2015 at 3:23 PM

What does yours look like? I still need to make one. When did you give it to the bridal party?

ashley, Sep 14, 2015 12 153
Mrs. Lav
FOB toast?
Mrs. Lav, on September 14, 2015 at 1:10 PM

Out of curiousity, does the FOB still give the toast if the B&G are hosting the wedding? We've had some issues with my parents over the last year, plus my dad is sort of awkward, so we're not sure if...

Promike, Sep 14, 2015 10 190
Mphgirl23
When your band hires a new singer... and she friggin sucks?
Mphgirl23, on September 14, 2015 at 9:13 AM

FH and I went to see our wedding band play this weekend (they recently lost their lead female singer and hired someone new). She was absolutely.frickin.terrible. Her voice is really awful and she...

Lynnie, Sep 14, 2015 17 49
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Invited Guests Bringing Extra People
Christine, on September 13, 2015 at 4:18 PM

I have had several people say that they are bringing a guest even though their invitation did not include a guest and was only addressed to them. In one case, I invited a husband and wife who recently...

Emily, Sep 14, 2015 24 3,779
Jessica
Email invite etiquette for rehearsal dinner
Jessica, on September 13, 2015 at 9:49 PM

We are using Paperless Post (love!) for our rehearsal dinner invites. If I am missing the email address of someone's Sig O (who is invited) is it acceptable to just email the one person in the couple?...

Reggie, Sep 13, 2015 2 138
JuneBride27
No Wedding Present from Inlaws?
JuneBride27, on September 10, 2015 at 5:21 PM

What is considered proper gift-giving etiquette for in-laws? At first my husband and I didn't think anything of it, but as we were going through our thank you cards and wedding gift lists, we noticed...

Susan, Sep 13, 2015 26 3,057
Sarah
Invitation étiquette/ Address labels
Sarah, on September 12, 2015 at 9:41 PM

Hello, I know that using typed address labels for your guests on the invitations is considered rude, but what about using return address labels? or labels on the Save the date and Thank you...

Reggie, Sep 13, 2015 15 952
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