Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I really hate playing games at these things. I have terrible social anxiety and it really makes me feel uncomfortable. That, and most are really corny. I'm invited to a baby shower next month and...

I'm making my programs, and I want to recognize my moms boss who gave us a generous amount of money to cover the cake and dessert table for our wedding. So far my wording for my thank you is "Thank...

My dad is in a wheel chair and I need some ideas on honoring him some other way. He is feeling overwhelmed I think about the whole thing because he doesnt feel comfortable getting in front of...

A couple of months ago, I went to a co-workers wedding. Everything was beautiful, but nothing was organized. She called me everyday up to the wedding to cry because her wedding planner didn't help...

My Fiance and I were planning on having a large wedding with all the fixings, but it got way too stressful starting with narrowing down the guest list and we have decided to elope while we are on...

We all know the "If I could have done this differently" scenarios we talk about. Most involve hiring better vendors, not spending as much/little, going on a honeymoon, etc. What about the sentimental...

So for our wedding our guests have the choice between a stuffed chicken breast, prime rib, or a vegetarian dish. My FH and I were originally planning on having the prime rib, but our coordinator is...

Did you write a thank you card to your bridesmaids when you gave them their bridesmaid gift or just sent one after the wedding?? i don't want to seem redundant. Thoughts?!?!

Just wondering, am I expected to invite my cousins, my future sister in law or my future mother in law to the bachelorette party? I would guess no, but a few years ago when my fiance's sister got...

I'm asking because I live in a small town and I'm thinking of the guests that are from around this area and Walmart is everywhere. There is a target about an hour away but I honestly don't know if...

We've already gotten 30 RSVPs back (140 guests) and I have started thinking about how we're going to indicate meal choices on the escort cards. We have three options - a beef dish, a chicken dish, and...

Ok so are you guys walking down the aisle to music ? The traditional wedding song? If so how? On a blue tooth speaker? Who will be in charge of starting this music and volume?? Or will your dj be...

Originally I wanted a food truck to cater, but apparently none of them want to take my money so I am looking at different options. I know buffet's are the usual/easist style but it just feels so...

We are having a child free wedding, including only the kids who are in the wedding, and we told my daughter she could invite one friend so she felt like she had someone to hang out with all day. She...

One of my bridesmaids is most likely going to drop out of my bridal party. Her dog recently passed away and her job is too stressful where she feels she cannot handle the wedding on top of all of her...

I found the most beautiful bridesmaid dresses, but they are $350 each. most of my friends are well off, as are we. My fiancé doesn't think that's too much to ask them to pay for their dress......

In general, who is supposed to pay for food for the bridal shower? Is this something that is supposed to be left to the bridesmaids? We may have it at a friend's house, and I'm a bit shy about how to...

I am having a bit of a debate with my fiancé. I have made his two cousins coming from brazil my bridesmaids. All in hopes to include his side of the family as much as possible because only a handful...

I hadn't planned on being given away, and had honestly not even planned for my father to walk me down the aisle. I figured I'm too old for that, it's archaic, and he and I have a weird relationship...