What color is your straight jacket? Mine is purple!!!

My favorite is well i guess im not invited to the wedding. I haven't got an invitation. Umm well we haven't sent them out yet is probably why you don't have one yet. Just throwing that out there.

Ohhhh, I want teal one!! My friends keep asking who my bridesmaids will be and can they be one.

@Hannah...I've gotten the same thing although if you haven't gotten our STD you probably aren't so...

@Dee...I've had three cousins and one client to ask to be the flower girl...the cousins are all over 26 and married...(sigh)

Yes, a major side effect of wedding planning is people asking questions and talking about your wedding. People also get upset if there is no interest shown in their weddings too. Just take it all with a grain of salt. If people are asking about your colors, dress, and other details... that means they care. Sure, some of those questions are annoying ,but its par for the course when planning a wedding.

@MsDani313 I have no one to be my flower girl. The youngest girl in the family is a teen.

Both mom and FMIL, what kind of blue? A sky blue, royal, more teal, baby, Navy.... They need to find matching (p.s. I thought mom's don't match bridesmaid?) What time? Where? What's your playlist? Can you add this song? Can I bring potato salad? When can I see your dress? What are the flowergirls wearing? How are you doing hair? Who is the official? Can I see your decorations? When are you sending invites? Avoid these date because we have plans, birthdays, anniversaries... My jacket is blue lol

- what gifts should I get my bridesmaids - IDK, we don't know them

- is it tacky to.....

@Dee the new in trend is grandmothers being flower girls or i guess flower women.

Oh them FMIL I love mine I do...but she is also driving me towards my pint jacket. What should i wear to the wedding. What all do i need to know about the wedding. What about this. Umm I'll let you know as soon as i figure it out! FFIL is like just tell me what i need to do and ill do it. AH my life needs more people like him!

Haha, when I first saw the title on this I was so confused.

So funny! Hmmm, I would say...

- "Wouldn't the bridesmaid's dress blend in with the color of the table linens?"

P.S

My mom wore white and didn't tell me

And some of my bridesmaids decided to get to my house 4 hours late because they decided to get their nails done the morning of my wedding.

So I'd say my jacket was PLUM haha

BEST OF LUCK, Steph :

The ones I hated the most were:

- "Why aren't you getting married in (hometown/parents' hometown/city where I always lived in Canada)? I would come if you got married in said city".

- "Why aren't you having a Catholic wedding?"

- "Are you pregnant?"

- "Who are your BMs? / Are your BMs hot? / I want to hook up with one of your BMs"

My straight jacket was blue

@patches -- "Can I bring potato salad?" I'm sorry but that is the funniest thing to me for some reason.

The only awkward thing that has happened to me (so far, fingers crossed) was one of the groomsmen LITERALLY moments before FH planned on asking him to be a groomsmen said, "So I'm definitely invited to the wedding right? Since I'm not in the party?" This was probably 2-3 weeks after the engagement and the first time we saw him in person since. Admittedly he is the most socially inept person I know but still.

What does the venue look like, what's your timeline, show me your dress, what shades, what colors. I'm sure there will be more.... Mine is neon green and hanging in the closet just in case

I didn't get a whole lot of rudeness, but I DID get:

-How much are you spending?

-You're ONLY going to Disney for your honeymoon?

-Can you provide me with a list of things to do? Can I stay at your place?

After receiving the STD: "I got your invitation and of course I'm coming." Since when do people send a magnet with just the date of the wedding as an invitation. I would want more info than that. These people better not think that telling me in person that they were coming without even receiving an actual invitation is their RSVP.

My straight jacket is black. Best question so far has been "how could you get married the same day as -name- on the same ship?! You're ruining her wedding!" ETA I don't even know the girl...

I'm dying over "Can I bring potato salad?" People are crazy!

I've had a couple people make the "I better be invited" comment, but other than that not too much crazy stuff! Mostly just friendly curiosity/small talk. I guess there have been a couple people who've asked me "When's the funeral... Oh I mean wedding HAHAHA." Gross.

We didn't give +1s to FH's fraternity brothers since there are a LOT of single ones and they'll all be traveling as a group. One asked why he didn't get a +1 and FH responded that only people in actual relationships got them due to the number of true singles. His response was "Well, what if I've been f***ing this girl consistently for like two months, I just don't want to introduce her to my mom?"

Because the type of girl you wouldn't want introduce your mother to is really someone we want to spend over $200 on.

Hahaha... love the potato salad too!

Mine so far... and this is from someone I've known FOREVER...but somehow, hasn't kept up the past few years... "Wait... You and Paul are renewing your vows??!!" Uhmmm... No, Paul and I got divorced 8 years ago.

Purple, please.

I actually deactivated my fb account because all of my family started coming out of the woodwork...like family I don't really even consider family.

People are just so unbelievable sometimes.

FH and I met at work. I've since left. One coworker in particular was in love with FH and hated me because of it. She outranked me and multiple times pulled me into her office to say terrible things about me and my relationship with FH.

Yesterday she asked FH to let her know when the wedding was so she could put in for leave around that day. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA no.