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Can I have wedding pictures without a ceremony??
Megan, on April 10, 2017 at 12:19 PM

My soon-to-be husband and I are not have a ceremony. We plan to sign papers and have a nice dinner with a few close family members and friends. We are going to Italy for our honeymoon and I was hoping...

Tamara, Mar 1, 2023 23 7,310
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Is it weird to reuse a dress if I've never been married?
Hannah, on December 11, 2020 at 10:44 AM

Hi everyone, OK so a few years ago, I was engaged and we were in the process of planning a wedding but then I called it off. Between the engagement and calling it off, I bought the perfect dress. I...

Kayla, Mar 1, 2023 20 1,595
Brittany
Being told that a newborn *will* be at my wedding.
Brittany, on February 26, 2022 at 5:51 PM

Hi I need some advice. My fiancé and I don’t have kids, and so we decided (though a lot of family and friends have you g kids/babies) we were going to have a child free wedding. My maid of honor is...

Tayler, Mar 1, 2023 27 9,957
Christina
Help please! Bride asked for my address to send invitation but i haven’t received anything?
Christina, on February 20, 2023 at 9:28 PM

Hi! My husband and I got married in 2021, my cousin and his fiancé were in attendance and following the wedding she reached out for wedding planning advice and recommendations. They ended up booking...

Mayene, Feb 28, 2023 7 1,038
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Wedding Program wording
Charlene, on February 28, 2023 at 12:14 PM

On the template for the wedding program, it lists GRANPARENTS OF THE BRIDE, then the same for the Groom. There is only one living Grandparent on the Groom's side so should I change the wording to...

Michelle, Feb 28, 2023 4 576
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Advice? My brother wants me in his wedding and is not inviting my fiancé.
David, on February 21, 2023 at 1:37 AM

My brother and his fiancé have been planning their wedding the last 2-3 months. Before that my entire family including my fiancé have really been looking forward to the wedding. They just sent out the...

Paige, Feb 28, 2023 15 2,505 1
Haley
What to do about people who don’t rsvp
Haley, on February 17, 2023 at 7:37 AM

Hello! My bridal shower is in 2 weeks and the deadline to provide the headcount for the venue is tomorrow. I sent out invitations and had several people not respond. A bridesmaid reached out to those...

Liz, Feb 28, 2023 13 1,083
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Invitation Issues
2023bridetobe, on February 22, 2023 at 1:16 AM

Hello all! I am hoping for some advice on invitation wording. My parents ( I am the bride) are very graciously paying for our wedding. I need to figure out a way to word the invitations that clearly...

MrsC, Feb 27, 2023 11 784
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Transportation help
Kirsten, on February 20, 2023 at 4:36 PM

My fiancé and I's families live in a town about 30 minutes from a small town our wedding venue is in. Ceremony and reception is at the same place. The cheapest hotel block we could get is $200...

Jodie, Feb 27, 2023 4 463 1
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Wedding Venue - increasing prices after down payment/won't tell us the pricing
Mary, on February 25, 2023 at 11:26 AM

Hi all, I'm having a really frustrating time dealing with my venue and want to know if this is typical or something shady going on. So my venue provides catering and beverages and when I initially...

Brittany, Feb 27, 2023 6 1,345
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After Party Invitees
Sept Bride, on February 23, 2023 at 10:51 PM

Hi! In need of advice. Me and my fiancé are having an after party after our wedding reception. Originally, we wanted the after party to be more intimate and only invite close friends and family....

CM, Feb 25, 2023 5 856
Dajai
Young and New
Dajai, on February 24, 2023 at 7:31 PM

Hi fellow brides (I'm nonbinary but I do relate more to the brides than the grooms lol) I need as much help as possible, any tips or tricks would be nice lol. Also, would love to meet new friends, my...

Alisha, Feb 25, 2023 1 107
Jennifer
Mother of the Bride
Jennifer, on February 13, 2023 at 4:52 PM

I am a mom who lost her husband and father of my children 4 years ago. I recently started dating a man and we've been inseparable for 4 months. We don't live together. My children are all grown and...

CM, Feb 24, 2023 6 820
tinyred15
Are you inviting your future mother in law to get ready with you on your wedding day?
tinyred15, on February 24, 2017 at 3:32 PM

Hey all! As my title suggests, I wanted to see if people were inviting their future mother in laws to get their hair and makeup done with them on their wedding day. I was not planning on doing so. My...

Valerie, Feb 23, 2023 61 9,334
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Anniversary Party for 2 couples
R2D2, on February 23, 2023 at 3:11 PM

Hello, Would it be ok if I celebrate my 1 year anniversary and include my parents to celebrate their 25 years anniversary on the same date? Our anniversary date is just one day apart.

CM, Feb 23, 2023 3 734
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Trouble With Registry Phrasing/verbiage
Elly, on February 22, 2023 at 3:26 AM

Hello Wedding Wire! I am in a little bit of a dilemma (and please excuse the length of the post): My fiancé and I have been together for several years and we are having a destination wedding (wedding...

Kimberly, Feb 23, 2023 2 242
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Un-inviting Someone to Wedding… need advice!!!!
Kristen, on February 19, 2023 at 12:13 PM

Hi! I’m looking for some advice. We are about 3 months out from my wedding … 2 weeks out from sending invites. There are 2 people that are on the side of my FH that we sent save the dates to but as of...

Brittany, Feb 23, 2023 5 575
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Inviting most of my cousins...except for one.
Alli, on February 18, 2023 at 4:37 PM

So we're getting our guest list together and close to our goal of 80 total. We're inviting close family and friends which includes some aunts, uncles, and cousins however not all are going to be...

Michelle, Feb 22, 2023 3 496
Bailey
Destination Weddings and Bridal Showers
Bailey, on February 20, 2023 at 11:23 AM

Hi guys! A little backstory - destination weddings run deep in my family/friends circle. They're common and not frowned upon, but also tend to be on the lower end [cost wise] of DW- meaning nobody has...

Heather, Feb 22, 2023 13 2,806
Brittany
Tipping Bartender w/ a Tip Jar
Brittany, on November 14, 2019 at 9:58 AM

Every wedding I have been to has had an open tip jar for the bartender. My fiance and I always tip graciously to these folks who work their butts off to make the guests drinks as does our friend...

CM, Feb 21, 2023 29 4,755
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