Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hey all I'm wondering how you would go about this situation: photographers that were spoken with sent different people from their "team" to take photos for a wedding. It took over 10 weeks for photos...

She was never really supportive of my relationship with my fiance even if we aren't a toxic couple. In fact, she was the first friend I introduced my bf to back then. She was chummy with him at first,...

I ran into another snag ladies!!! Im on a budgeted wedding, so please keep that in mind. 1. MY MOH suggested i keep 1 bottle of champagne at each table and when the time comes whoever wants to do the...

Hello I need advice. I suffer from anxiety and haven’t my whole life until this last year. I wanted to have a wedding because I love the idea of our families coming together for a weekend since we’re...

Nothing against anyone but I’m trying to keep the wedding small. I’m already over my maximum amount of people and that’s with excluding some family members. I feel like if I can’t invite some members...

My daughter is getting married on a small yacht this summer. She is nearly 40 years old and getting married for the first time and is only inviting a very small number of people. The immediate family...

My MOH is great. We have been friends for years and I love her lots, but we aren't the closest and she is a bit sensitive so I have a bit of trouble speaking directly with her. I want to start off by...

My FH and I want a destination elopement in the mountains. After months of deciding what we wanted to do, we found a ceremony venue we love but it has a limit on the amount of people that can attend....

Has anyone ever had a coin bridal shower? If so what did the guests think of it and how did you let them know what it was? I really want to do one instead of a regular bridal shower because my fiance...

So I got engaged December 2022. I wanted a winter wedding so I was planning it for February 2024. We were starting to plan and realizing living up north with unpredictable weather and needing to have...

You know... A lot of these posts make me super sad. I don't think it's ok to invite biological nieces/nephews or brothers/sisters and not invite step versions of those same ones. ESPECIALLY when...

My husband's only brother is getting married and addressed the online STD's as husband's name and guest. We've been married 13 years and I've met his brother countless times, have a totally fine and...

I am quite curious, what are your family wedding traditions that you've still done up until these days?

My mom passed away 8 years ago. My dad remarried in 2021. I have already invited my 2 sisters, my aunt (who is my moms sister and who has been involved in my life since I was little), my future MIL...

Posting this for my friend as we were wedding chatting last night. She didn’t give a high school friend a plus one, she’ll know a lot of people at the wedding. My friend never met her friends new...

My mom asked if she could host a bridal shower for me at her church (which I grew up in & only recently stopped going to about 2 years ago). She wants to host it with a couple women who have known...

I'm just curious. For those of you who never officially got proposed to, how do you feel about it? Like is it something you just don't think about and you go on with your life? Are you more focused on...

So my fiance and I are stumped on this one. We're trying to narrow down our invite list to reduce our guest number to help cut costs and get a more accurate number to help with narrowing down our...

Penny for your thoughts. I’ve gotten mixed feelings towards my situation, or should I say, past situation. I was not involved/invited in any planning, shopping, bridesmaids, or bachelorette party...

Who do you get getting ready slippers for? Just bridesmaids usually or MOB, MOG, Flower Girl, etc. also?