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Jennifer
Mother of the Bride
Jennifer, on February 13, 2023 at 4:52 PM

I am a mom who lost her husband and father of my children 4 years ago. I recently started dating a man and we've been inseparable for 4 months. We don't live together. My children are all grown and...

CM, Feb 24, 2023 6 818
tinyred15
Are you inviting your future mother in law to get ready with you on your wedding day?
tinyred15, on February 24, 2017 at 3:32 PM

Hey all! As my title suggests, I wanted to see if people were inviting their future mother in laws to get their hair and makeup done with them on their wedding day. I was not planning on doing so. My...

Valerie, Feb 23, 2023 61 9,316
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Anniversary Party for 2 couples
R2D2, on February 23, 2023 at 3:11 PM

Hello, Would it be ok if I celebrate my 1 year anniversary and include my parents to celebrate their 25 years anniversary on the same date? Our anniversary date is just one day apart.

CM, Feb 23, 2023 3 733
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Trouble With Registry Phrasing/verbiage
Elly, on February 22, 2023 at 3:26 AM

Hello Wedding Wire! I am in a little bit of a dilemma (and please excuse the length of the post): My fiancé and I have been together for several years and we are having a destination wedding (wedding...

Kimberly, Feb 23, 2023 2 242
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Un-inviting Someone to Wedding… need advice!!!!
Kristen, on February 19, 2023 at 12:13 PM

Hi! I’m looking for some advice. We are about 3 months out from my wedding … 2 weeks out from sending invites. There are 2 people that are on the side of my FH that we sent save the dates to but as of...

Brittany, Feb 23, 2023 5 574
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Inviting most of my cousins...except for one.
Alli, on February 18, 2023 at 4:37 PM

So we're getting our guest list together and close to our goal of 80 total. We're inviting close family and friends which includes some aunts, uncles, and cousins however not all are going to be...

Michelle, Feb 22, 2023 3 490
Bailey
Destination Weddings and Bridal Showers
Bailey, on February 20, 2023 at 11:23 AM

Hi guys! A little backstory - destination weddings run deep in my family/friends circle. They're common and not frowned upon, but also tend to be on the lower end [cost wise] of DW- meaning nobody has...

Heather, Feb 22, 2023 13 2,794
Brittany
Tipping Bartender w/ a Tip Jar
Brittany, on November 14, 2019 at 9:58 AM

Every wedding I have been to has had an open tip jar for the bartender. My fiance and I always tip graciously to these folks who work their butts off to make the guests drinks as does our friend...

CM, Feb 21, 2023 29 4,737
Laura2.0
So I went to a potluck wedding
Laura2.0, on August 8, 2016 at 11:21 AM

Saturday I attended a potluck wedding. Sigh I know I've never heard of one before ww so I was curious.I see a lot of potluck suggestions and brides adamant on having a potluck wedding, so I wanted to...

CM, Feb 20, 2023 85 16,145
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“Vow Renewal” vs “anniversary Party”
Stephanie, on October 16, 2022 at 12:36 AM

My husband and I got married on a whim between shifts at a courthouse. We didn’t even have rings, and no one knew we were doing it. We don’t have any photos of the day because we weren’t allowed to...

Julieta, Feb 20, 2023 7 2,861
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Adults Only Wedding
Andrea, on December 5, 2022 at 4:06 PM

Hi everybody! I’d appreciate your feedback. My fiancé and I decided we wanted an adult only wedding. Together 11 years, originally from Texas, lived in Florida for the past 10 years now. Wedding will...

CM, Feb 20, 2023 13 865
Karissa
Timing of Group Thank You Gift
Karissa, on February 20, 2023 at 1:56 PM

My grandmother is throwing us a couple's shower and as a thank you gift my fiance and I are planning to take her to a show (ballet, musical, concert, etc. - we haven't settled on what show yet). We...

Karissa, Feb 20, 2023 3 222
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Bridesmaid Lack of interest..normal?
Renee , on January 10, 2018 at 1:38 PM

I am currently struggling with the lack of interest that my bridesmaids are showing in my wedding. I am the last to get married...leaving all my bridesmaids having babies and mortgages now. I have...

Amber, Feb 20, 2023 22 4,296 1
Alana
Asking the parents of ring bearers/flower girls
Alana, on July 24, 2022 at 2:28 AM

Hello everyone! So I need some advice/ opinions. I’m having 2 ring bearers and 2 flower girls, each kid will be under the age of 8 at the time of the wedding, so I know I’ll have to ask their parents...

Antonia, Feb 19, 2023 6 3,148
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Bridesmaid and Groomsmen Gifts
Ivy, on February 19, 2023 at 12:12 AM

My fiancé and I will pay for our groomsmen and bridesmaid's attire and hair and make up. Since these will already add up to our overall expenses, do we still need to give them individual gifts?

Cece, Feb 19, 2023 3 613
Alyssa
Help with underwhelming photos.
Alyssa, on February 18, 2023 at 10:02 AM

Hey all I'm wondering how you would go about this situation: photographers that were spoken with sent different people from their "team" to take photos for a wedding. It took over 10 weeks for photos...

Michele, Feb 18, 2023 8 571
T. O.
“Best friend” is upset that she didn’t know about my bf’s proposal plans
T. O., on February 14, 2023 at 3:46 AM

She was never really supportive of my relationship with my fiance even if we aren't a toxic couple. In fact, she was the first friend I introduced my bf to back then. She was chummy with him at first,...

Michelle, Feb 18, 2023 19 2,642
Lynnie Pin
Best way to have champagne poured for toast?
Lynnie Pin, on December 19, 2013 at 1:50 PM

I ran into another snag ladies!!! Im on a budgeted wedding, so please keep that in mind. 1. MY MOH suggested i keep 1 bottle of champagne at each table and when the time comes whoever wants to do the...

Cynthia, Feb 16, 2023 17 12,797
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2 months away and i want to cancel
Laura, on February 10, 2023 at 9:31 PM

Hello I need advice. I suffer from anxiety and haven’t my whole life until this last year. I wanted to have a wedding because I love the idea of our families coming together for a weekend since we’re...

Paige, Feb 14, 2023 5 618
Kristi
Do i have to invite my dads girlfriends children?
Kristi, on February 12, 2023 at 12:59 AM

Nothing against anyone but I’m trying to keep the wedding small. I’m already over my maximum amount of people and that’s with excluding some family members. I feel like if I can’t invite some members...

Paige, Feb 14, 2023 10 823
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