Hi I need some advice. My fiancé and I don’t have kids, and so we decided (though a lot of family and friends have you g kids/babies) we were going to have a child free wedding.
My maid of honor is due 3 months before the wedding, and is making arrangements for her newborn to be watched for the night.
My fiancé’s sister-in-law just announced her second pregnancy, and is due two weeks before the wedding.
My soon to be mother-in-law and his SIL did not ask about the baby being at the wedding, just TOLD us the baby will be. That it’s no big deal and if the baby cries she will step out with the infant.
The wedding will have some unvaccinated people, loud music, and we are very concerned with spending tens of thousands of $ on a day, just to risk crying during the ceremony ect.
What do I do? I’m told all the time to be selfish for my wedding (I keep trying to please everyone) and now that I’ve started trying to have what I want, this happens.
Am I the asshole here? Or should they not just *expect* to get to do this without asking??