Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hello all! I’m having a small 50 person wedding. I’m having trouble sorting out the cake situation as I only budgeted $100 or so for cake. My venue plates a lemon brownie with ice cream with...

My fiancé and I are trying to pick our wedding party. I have two SILs that I'd like to include. I was in both of their weddings. We'll call my brother's wife A, my brothers B and C, my fiancé's sister...

So, my FH and I have decided to do a seating chart after RSVP deadline, we have received late RSVPs which would not be a problem except they do not have names so we are unsure who they are and where...

Our wedding limit is pretty tight, we can only have 120 people including my fiancé and I. I have already discussed with my friends that they won't be able to bring their significant other or a date...

So I have to postpone or cancel my wedding because my fiancée is going through health issues and there is no way she’ll be healthy enough to get married in July. I’m unsure when she’ll be healthy...

My email address is my first and last name, i was wondering what to do after marriage. ive had this email address since i was like 19! so i get emails from literally everything and its stuff that i...

Hi ladies! I keep coming back to the same SILLY indecision over our names on the invitations. I have googled relentlessly just to find what "etiquette" is, as I am so torn on both.... if I read that...

Hi Everyone! I'm getting married in August 2018 yaayy! Does anyone know how to word an Invitation for a ceremony only - no children? The wedding will be an open wedding at my church. Anyone can come...

I got engaged nov 2021 and when I announced it just automatically assumed I would have a bridal party, have it in my home town and all the classic wedding “things”. Our original planned date was for...

Hey guys! So I am a bride to be (getting married in The spring of 2021) but this question is about my close friend who is getting married soon, I’ve known for a while that she wanted to do a...

For those of you who had some, what were they? I’m not trying to be over the top or anything but I would like them to know upfront what they are getting into. Some things I thought about is that I...

So my son is getting married. His mother and I are divorced and remarried, for close to 25 years. My now wife has been in my son's life since he was about 6. Me and the ex don't talk and last time we...

What do you do if your friends are married and are both in the wedding party and they have a toddler who is also the flower girl in the wedding? Basically, all 3 of them are in the wedding. The child...

I have two friends that are my personal attendants but I hate that name... anyone have an idea of something else I can call them on wedding programs & such? *ive seen a lot of incredibly rude...

We are having a donut wall for our guests, but we still want to have a small cake for the cake cutting ceremony. Is this weird or do you think it would work?

My son will be getting married at his father's farm and having the reception there. This is a place where I am not welcome. Back story- there is always an ugly back story to these things. Their father...

I’m 34 and never been married or had children. I’ve been in a few long term relationships. I’ve been with my partner for a year and this is the relationship I’ve been waiting for. It’s everything I...

Hi all, My fiance and I are working on our bridal party... he only has 3 and I have 6. I have no qualms with that, but I'm not including his SIL (brother's wife) in the party. Is that okay? She's...

FH and I have not set a budget, but don't want to go over 10k. Unfortunately, with our immediate aunts, uncles, cousins, and close friends, our guest list is near 150. Would it be rude to have a...

So I am having my ceremony at 630pm followed by cocktail hour and then dinner. Dinner would begin at 8. Is that late? Appetizers would be passed around cocktail hour. My wedding is scheduled to end at...