Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I addressed a few save the dates to entire families (ie. The Smith Family), and now regret it - how bad would it be to address formal invites to adults/parents only?

My son and his FW want to take communion at their wedding next month. We have since found out that the methodist minister says that if they take it, they must offer it to everyone in attendance. I...

Okay. So my FH and I are eloping out of state. The ceremony will be in City Park (the permit allows 25 guests max) and I rented a massive house that accommodates 24 people. This is where most of our...

Did you do all (or most) of your cake tiers different flavors, or keep the same flavor throughout?

We made nice virtual STD’s and sent them via text. People saw them and reached out to us. It had our wedding website listed also. 2 days later, the STD link is unable to be opened by our guests due to...

So FMIL is paying for the photo booth. She also offered to pay for the cake but now my stepmom wants to pay for the cake (which is totally fine!) So FMIL wants to pay for something else. We were...

Hi! We are getting married on a weekday (Monday) in October where 90% of our guest list has to travel out-of-town. In your opinion, what is the earliest I can send wedding invitations? I'm an eager...

Hello! First-time poster; love the forum! Our wedding is in 7 weeks. We live in Nepal; our wedding is in the US (which is home for us); our honeymoon is in Bali. We're planning a 3-day wedding...

Hello everyone, I would love your input. My partner and I are considering having a destination micro-wedding with a symbolic ceremony, doing the legal stuff just before we go. We want to keep the...

Hi everyone, I wanted to make this post since as I've been wedding planning I've noticed that if you're a woman and express an opinion on something wedding-related and it's not just about how ecstatic...

So I need some help. I am getting married and my fiancé and I have made the decision to not allow anyone to bring their children to the wedding (due to cost, avoiding tantrums during ceremony, etc)....

My Fiance lost his mother over 10 years ago and he wants to ask his sister in law to walk with his father down the aisle and have his "Groom and Mom" dance with her. She has been in his life since he...

When I asked my bridesmaids to be my bridesmaids I gave them a bag of gifts. Now that I'm a little over 5 months away from my wedding day, I'm questioning if I need to give them another gift either...

My fiancé and are I were looking to getting customized wedding bands, but not sure where to go? Has anyone ever ordered their bands off Etsy? Do you know if the jewelry is real? I don’t want to buy...

Hello all! I’m having a small 50 person wedding. I’m having trouble sorting out the cake situation as I only budgeted $100 or so for cake. My venue plates a lemon brownie with ice cream with...

My fiancé and I are trying to pick our wedding party. I have two SILs that I'd like to include. I was in both of their weddings. We'll call my brother's wife A, my brothers B and C, my fiancé's sister...

So, my FH and I have decided to do a seating chart after RSVP deadline, we have received late RSVPs which would not be a problem except they do not have names so we are unsure who they are and where...

Our wedding limit is pretty tight, we can only have 120 people including my fiancé and I. I have already discussed with my friends that they won't be able to bring their significant other or a date...

So I have to postpone or cancel my wedding because my fiancée is going through health issues and there is no way she’ll be healthy enough to get married in July. I’m unsure when she’ll be healthy...

My email address is my first and last name, i was wondering what to do after marriage. ive had this email address since i was like 19! so i get emails from literally everything and its stuff that i...