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Amanda
Any other brides dealing with depression while wedding planning?
Amanda, on October 19, 2016 at 7:38 AM

I've suffered from depression and anxiety since I was a teenager. Sometimes it can make wedding planning so much more difficult! I'm on medication for it but it's not always enough. Is anyone else...

NikNak, Oct 19, 2016 7 285
ajpeacockk
Whyyyy. Puppies aren't flowers.. or party favors..
ajpeacockk, on October 19, 2016 at 1:02 AM

Why do people do this crap?? And then the media covers it and other people want to do it. Puppies are huge responsibility- not something you can think lightly of. So dumb. Link:...

Flying, Oct 19, 2016 13 657
LuvBeingMarried2Him!
Bridal Shower Explanation..
LuvBeingMarried2Him!, on October 18, 2016 at 11:09 PM

I just received an invite today to a bridal shower. In the invitation it says 'be a dear and wrap in clear'. Is that a new thing? Because I've never heard of someone saying to bring a gift and wrap it...

Rachel Langerhans, Oct 19, 2016 14 1,616
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Yes or no to boudoir?
FamilyJewels, on October 17, 2016 at 11:40 PM

Have any of you done boudoir photos? I like the idea but am naturally nervous about it, never having done anything like that before. I feel that it would be a very special gift for him to have....

Melissa, Oct 19, 2016 30 185
Private_User832
NWR: diaper raffle for a baby shower?
Private_User832, on October 18, 2016 at 7:09 PM

I just got invited to a baby shower for twins. They are doing a raffle that you get entered in if you bring diapers (aside from gifts), which was included on the invitation. I've never seen this...

Grechen, Oct 18, 2016 11 1,917
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Mother of bride problems
Chandler, on August 13, 2016 at 10:17 PM

So, my mom is paying for a LOT at my wedding. actually, my grandpa is paying but she has the checkbook and he just lets her do whatever since he doesn't really have any interest in planning. My...

ewg116, Oct 18, 2016 6 418
Kristen
Why are people so tacky?
Kristen, on October 18, 2016 at 8:01 AM

This is the RSVP card for a wedding FH was just invited to. Read the last line. UGHHHHHHHHHH.

Dayna, Oct 18, 2016 108 411
FutureMrsD
Gofundme honeymoon. Really??
FutureMrsD, on October 18, 2016 at 1:55 PM

I'm still having a hard time believing that there's people out there that do this.. http://allchristiannews.com/pastor-marries-mistress-begs-honeymoon-money-gofundme/

future_mrs_c2018, Oct 18, 2016 10 1,278
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Small Wedding - Buffet vs Plated Dinner
Vanessa, on October 17, 2016 at 6:12 PM

We are getting married in a beautiful hotel in February. There will be approx. 35 of our closest family and friends. Would you do a plated dinner or buffet? Both options are being catered by the Keg...

FutureMrsB, Oct 18, 2016 21 149
A. L.
"Together with their families" when only one side is contributing?
A. L., on October 18, 2016 at 10:14 AM

I think I'm okay on this, but I want to make sure. My parents are each giving us some money for our wedding, although we are paying for the bulk of it. FH's parents have both passed on, but we are...

Samtoine2017, Oct 18, 2016 11 2,202
Austin & Sydney
$1 Dance
Austin & Sydney, on September 15, 2016 at 7:33 PM

UPDATE: I'm not going to do a $1 dance! Thank you all for the advice! very helpful! Hi everyone. I was talking to a friend who recently got married and she said that I defiantly had to do the...

Nessanay, Oct 17, 2016 81 162
Sundevilgirl17
Alcohol at Bridal Shower?
Sundevilgirl17, on October 17, 2016 at 12:33 PM

So my sister and mom are throwing me a shower this weekend at a local restaurant which I am so appreciative of. My question is around the etiquette of alcohol being provided at a shower though. We are...

Patty, Oct 17, 2016 17 2,719
NewlyWeducated
Ways to honor brothers?
NewlyWeducated, on October 17, 2016 at 12:09 PM

Happy Monday y'all! Looking for suggestions...I have twin brothers that I've always been joined at the hip with (grew up together, then went to college together, roommates all through college, always...

MzKiwi, Oct 17, 2016 12 46
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Bridesmen at bachelorette party
Rachel, on October 17, 2016 at 3:35 PM

Hello! I'm a long-time lurker and have found a lot of your advice to be helpful, so thank you for that and nice to officially to be on here! :-) I've looked around for this topic here and on other...

BlueHenBride, Oct 17, 2016 5 218
Jenna
Best Man doesn't want to give a speech
Jenna, on October 16, 2016 at 7:40 PM

Ugh. I know, show up, look handsome, can't demand more. But a BM speech is a pretty standard expectation, and 6 days before the wedding, he doesn't want to, and wants to know exactly how long the...

MrsA, Oct 17, 2016 27 9,115
Emily
Processional: Lyrics vs Instrumental
Emily, on October 16, 2016 at 11:08 PM

For awhile now, I've had a few different song ideas in my head for what I want my bridesmaids and then I to walk down the wedding aisle to. While I enjoy instrumental music, the particular songs I'm...

MrsBThom, Oct 17, 2016 10 2,330
Amanda
Hosiery under your dress?
Amanda, on October 15, 2016 at 5:54 PM

Are any of you wearing any type of hosiery under your wedding dress like pantyhose, tights, or thigh highs? Just wondering what's normal here!

Bee, Oct 16, 2016 36 1,874
Disney Sweetheart
Brunch wedding will people dance
Disney Sweetheart, on October 15, 2016 at 11:10 PM

If we have a brunch reception from 10 to 3. If we hired a dj will people dance?

Disney Sweetheart, Oct 16, 2016 16 188
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Brunch wedding to dj or not
christine, on October 13, 2016 at 11:42 PM

So we are having a Sunday brunch reception next fall and I have been on the fence on if a dj is necessary. It will be a relatively short reception from 12-3 and happy hour drinks. If I don't have a dj...

MzRosaLu, Oct 15, 2016 12 1,556
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Guests w/ young kids; do we provide highchair/place setting?
stacy, on October 15, 2016 at 10:03 PM

Hello! We did the online RSVP thing, and for my family (so cousins w/ children mainly) I included the number of kids they have plus the parents for the total # of people allowed to RSVP. So naturally,...

Courtney, Oct 15, 2016 15 4,360
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