Yes or no to boudoir?

I am doing one. I've heard people suggesting to drink before you take your pics to loosen up lol. I would meet with some local photographers and find someone you would also be comfortable with as well. I'm using the same woman who did our engagements which we had a really good experience with.

YES YES YES do it! I did a boudoir photo shoot for my husbands wedding gift and he absolutely loved the book!

I totally want to so this too!

@natalie g how far out before the wedding did you do them?

I want to do it, but it doesn't fit into my budget

I want to do one!

I'm doing it!

I'm not doing one. In my FH's words, "If I want a naked photo of you, I'll take it myself." Basically he thinks it's a waste of money and we take sexy pics anyway so it's not necessary. We're not giving each other gifts. We'd rather just save money for our future together and just pay what we have to for the necessities.

If you think your FH would like it then I say yes!

Do it!

I think it's a great idea, and totally plan on doing this. I think he'd love it.

I think the trick will be finding a photographer you're comfortable with and who is knowledgeable about giving you direction.

I'm with @mustlovecats... My FH can take a picture of me whenever he wants. The book would be looked at and then stored away. I would hate someone to happen to stumble upon it. Just seems like a lot of money that I could spend on something else. But if you want to do it, I say go for it!

100000% YES. I loved mine and so did DH. And they turned out incredible! We have two hanging in our master bath bc, hey, I look hot

Yes times a million. If you have the right photographer you will not feel awkward at all. They had wine for me to drink right there, and it was just a really fun time.

That's a total personal question. My FH would be horrified, because that's not us. But you do you.

Not doing it. I wouldn't feel comfortable or enjoy it, and I would hate the pictures. FH would be horrified.

FH is really nerdy, so I am going to get him a Nerd Box filled with stuff I know he'd like - If you've heard of it, think Loot Crate (but better). It may not seem like it, but it's a very personal gift with a lot of thought behind it.

I wouldn't do it ....

I am not doing it. I would hate for those pics to get out in some way (especially being a teacher). And the book would just end up being stashed somewhere and it was extra money I could save for something else. We also aren't doing gifts for each other. We are giving ourself to the other person and both agreed that was enough of a gift!

My FH would also be horrified. It all depends on you and FH.

It would depend on your style. My husband and are I quite sexy together. I gave him this as a wedding gift. Our photographer gave me a deal. It was so much fun to do as well, but you have to be open to it. My hubby loved the gift.