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Futuremrswilson
Receiving Line: A Must or No?
Futuremrswilson, on March 15, 2017 at 10:27 PM

Hi all! So I was having a conversation with my mom tonight about my wedding and plans for the wedding, when the idea of receiving lines came up. My mom says I have to do one, it would be at the church...

CuteNickname, Mar 17, 2017 45 2,409
A.Magill.Since.May
UO: I DON'T want to open gifts in front of guests at a shower.
A.Magill.Since.May, on March 16, 2017 at 10:53 AM

I don't really want a bridal shower at all, so hopefully this is a moot point but my mother and FMIL have both already made comments about registries and showers, so Idk if I'm going to get out of it....

24kMagicWed, Mar 16, 2017 59 1,908
JulyBride
Ghosting Vendors
JulyBride, on March 16, 2017 at 10:23 PM

Is it necessary to email each vendor that I have contacted if I choose not to go with them? I feel like I have contacted a million djs, photographers, and florists (in reality about five of each) over...

Jay Farrell, Mar 16, 2017 13 869
Karen
Can a venue charge sales tax on the fee for the space?
Karen, on September 23, 2014 at 11:47 AM

I just got my estimated total charges from our venue. She added up all the food charges. Added up the beverages. Added the venue fee on top of that. And then calculated the sales tax. Can she charge...

Darryl, Mar 16, 2017 10 32,949 1
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Where to get ready for a backyard wedding?
CBW, on March 16, 2017 at 12:00 PM

My ceremony and reception will be in my back yard. I had planned all along on the bridal party getting ready in the house. As we start thinking more and more about details, I suddenly realized that 2...

CBW, Mar 16, 2017 24 102
Rayla
Cheesecake Stand?
Rayla, on March 16, 2017 at 10:19 PM

Hey all, I'm looking for a two or three tiered stand for our wedding cheesecakes (8" and 12", and possibly also a 10"). I'm finding tons of cute tiered cupcake stands (with small cake stand on top),...

jessica, Mar 16, 2017 4 1,536
JJWed2018
Is it wrong to not cut the cake?
JJWed2018, on March 16, 2017 at 5:05 AM

I need a wedding guest perspective! I'm thinking about not doing a cake cutting. We are gonna have a big dessert table. If we do have a cake it will just be a one tier cake simply for the sake of...

Teri, Mar 16, 2017 37 1,742
Tashya
Rehearsal Dinner - Siblings
Tashya, on March 16, 2017 at 3:04 PM

Not sure on what the standard is since my future in-laws will be paying for the rehearsal dinner. Do I invite my brothers and their spouses to the rehearsal dinner if they are not in the wedding? FH's...

Bemyguest, Mar 16, 2017 12 2,551
MissToMrs
Reception only invite
MissToMrs, on March 15, 2017 at 7:21 PM

I received an invitation to my cousins wedding this July. The invitation is to the reception only and states that they are having a private wedding ceremony earlier that day. I'm a little bummed that...

Zandria, Mar 16, 2017 75 4,646
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Help! I have to miss my best friend's wedding due to my father in law's funeral. Do I record a speech??
Sarah, on March 16, 2017 at 10:18 AM

I'm completely broken that I have to miss my best friend's wedding, especially for such a terrible reason. This is extremely hard for me. I thought about recording a speech and having the dj play the...

BlueHenBride, Mar 16, 2017 13 1,447
Miranda
Wedding program sign-stepparents?
Miranda, on March 16, 2017 at 12:55 PM

So I am making a sign for our wedding ceremony instead of doing wedding programs. My parents are separated. My mom is remarried to my stepdad. I don't particularly care for him. But either way. Under...

Miranda, Mar 16, 2017 11 2,503
mrs.williams
Wedding jealousy..
mrs.williams, on March 15, 2017 at 5:27 PM

This is really embarrassing but I've been having some jealous feelings recently toward other people getting married! It sounds totally immature since I'm getting married myself in less than 8 months....

Rachel DellaPorte, Mar 16, 2017 27 3,721
Rhonda
Bridesmaids Gifts? - What did you (or what do you plan to) give to your Bridesmaids?
Rhonda, on August 21, 2012 at 12:42 AM

Ok - haven't figured this one out yet...need some inspiration. Help!

Roberta, Mar 15, 2017 28 2,183
KELLY
Dog table numbers?
KELLY, on March 15, 2017 at 9:19 AM

Too cheesy?

Waren, Mar 15, 2017 41 175 1
A
Planning a wedding in 2 months
ayisha, on March 14, 2017 at 9:15 PM

I'm sooooo out of my area of expertise!! My soon to be mother in law has been diagnosed with late stage cancer, So we've decided to get married now!! I am delighted to give she and my FH this gift,...

Celia Milton, Mar 15, 2017 7 612
E&E2017
Rounding up, do I need to?
E&E2017, on March 15, 2017 at 12:23 PM

Hey everyone! My day is fast approaching and my RSVP date is tomorrow, with a final count due next week to my venue. My best friend (BM who has been helping tremendously) is telling me "make sure you...

SarahHoff, Mar 15, 2017 24 1,356
K
Catering
Kylie, on March 1, 2017 at 8:14 PM

How much is everyone's budget for catering ? We are having 100 guests at our wedding and thought around $4000 would be reasonable. However, it seems like the catering may end up being thousands...

Angela, Mar 15, 2017 61 482
herecometheclarks
Acne and Makeup
herecometheclarks, on March 14, 2017 at 3:06 PM

Hey y'all! I have really sensitive skin. I wash my face at least once a day and try to moisturize when I remember. Other than that, I really don't do anything. It breaks out at least once a month...

vghjfcxgxfgdh, Mar 15, 2017 24 261
R&B2016
Cocktail Reception Etiquette
R&B2016, on March 15, 2017 at 10:14 AM

My best friend is planning her wedding for next year. They are considering doing a cocktail reception with hors d'ouvres (stationary and passed) with an open bar. What do you all think the etiquette...

Celia Milton, Mar 15, 2017 7 169
Jackie
Garter/Bouquet toss at same time?
Jackie, on March 14, 2017 at 1:13 PM

Is this unheard of? Trying to get it out the way quickly so people can keep dancing.

Jackie, Mar 14, 2017 8 203
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