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Light Haired Girl
Wax seal stamp initials???
Light Haired Girl, on July 3, 2017 at 3:53 PM

Okay so we are doing a wax seal stamp on our envelopes and I am trying to order the seal, but I don't know if we should do our initials (R&M), or the initial of his (my future) last name (H)??

Amanda, Jul 3, 2017 11 3,120
DesertPolarBear
Bridal Shower Duplicate Registry Gifts - Thank you etiquette
DesertPolarBear, on July 3, 2017 at 4:16 PM

My bridal shower was this weekend and it was so much fun! I was really touched with the number of people who made it and I enjoyed spending time with them. Unfortunately, due either to a registry...

SaraJ, Jul 3, 2017 5 124
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Junior bridesmaid and flower girl
Zena, on July 3, 2017 at 10:54 AM

Help! For my reception, my matron of honor, told me I don't have to announce my junior bridesmaid and flower girl at the reception They should be at the table already. She said it should be more of an...

Susan, Jul 3, 2017 18 109
Amber
Photo Booth Strips Wording
Amber, on July 3, 2017 at 11:08 AM

I just booked the photo booth for the wedding and the attendant told me to start thinking about what I want the picture strips to say at the bottom. I know that most wedding things are personalized...

MrsSki, Jul 3, 2017 11 3,882
Sarah
Destination Wedding - Pay for bridal party?
Sarah, on July 3, 2017 at 12:02 PM

Hello All, I'm new here but figured I'd ask advice as I'm going back and forth on this topic and see varying advice online. My fiance and I are planning a destination wedding in Riviera Maya area and...

CEH15, Jul 3, 2017 13 2,448
Stephanie
Including future niece/nephews in the wedding
Stephanie, on July 3, 2017 at 12:28 PM

My fiance only has one sibling, and she has 4 kids: two daughters (11 and 1), and two sons (9 and 8). The kids weren't around when their other uncle got married, so this would be their only chance to...

The OGest OG of All, Jul 3, 2017 6 108
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(Future) Step-mother in-law
Allyssa, on July 2, 2017 at 3:44 PM

Hello. My fiancee has a step-mother that we are not really close to. She is invited to the wedding and all the pre-wedding things (engagement party and bridal shower) but I am wondering if I should...

Liz, Jul 3, 2017 16 1,365 1
Sarah
Awkward conversation with non-invited friends
Sarah, on July 2, 2017 at 9:00 PM

HELP!! We sent out the Save the Dates to family and close friends for the wedding, and I had someone confront me on their failure to receive one as of yet. We are friendly with this person, but we...

Taylor, Jul 3, 2017 29 1,727
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Father of the bride gift, HELP!
Emily, on July 2, 2017 at 9:35 PM

Ok, so I nearly lost my dad four years ago. My brother and I preformed CPR, got him back, the whole 9 yards. So, I know how lucky I am to have him here for my wedding day. I want to make his father of...

Stephanie, Jul 2, 2017 10 284
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Favors - individual vs per couple
Colleen, on July 2, 2017 at 5:09 PM

My FH and I make our own wine, and we really want to incorporate this into our favors even though we know it's going to be a little pricey. We are looking at ~175 guests and I'm afraid it's going to...

Chanta, Jul 2, 2017 16 844
Hopeless Romantic
How long to get wedding photos back?
Hopeless Romantic, on July 2, 2017 at 2:00 AM

It has been over 8 weeks since the wedding and no photos yet. There wasn't any amount of time in the contract. Is it normal for it to take 3 months?

annakay511, Jul 2, 2017 21 15,220
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Belated reception ideas
Molly, on July 2, 2017 at 11:03 AM

My fiance and I are planning a beach wedding in florida with just immidiate family and we're planning on doing a reception kind of party at home, in illinois, about 2-3 weeks later. We want it to be...

Kate, Jul 2, 2017 4 965
NancyCtoA
Vows/Gift for stepsons
NancyCtoA, on June 26, 2017 at 10:44 PM

I will become a stepmom to two wonderful boys (12 and 16) when we get married. I plan to write "vows" for them, and want to give them some sort of symbolic gift, but can't think of anything... they...

Brittany, Jul 2, 2017 2 115
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Bad Maid of Honor Speech
Jane, on June 30, 2017 at 5:44 PM

Hi all- I need a little advice for dealing with the fallout of my wedding. My MOH have been friends since college, about 10 years. At the wedding, she got up and gave a terribly cringeworthy speech....

2nd Time's the Charm, Jul 2, 2017 42 2,682
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Mother of the bride gift
Katie, on July 2, 2017 at 8:11 AM

I'm getting married in 13 days and need help thinking of gift ideas for my mom! She has been my biggest supporter these past 9 months and has helped me plan every detail of my wedding so I want to get...

FutureMrs, Jul 2, 2017 3 172
Brittany
Distant Cousin - Gift if RSVP No?
Brittany, on June 30, 2017 at 5:26 PM

I don't want to be rude, but my dad's cousins CHILD is getting married. I've met them once at another family wedding. My FH and I are invited, but we will not be attending. Do I have to write them a...

Spaghetti, Jul 1, 2017 26 3,740
Kara
Bachelorette gift ideas
Kara, on July 1, 2017 at 6:53 PM

My friend's bachelorette party is coming up [a low key bonfire get together thing] and I have no idea what to get her. What did you buy if anything; any ideas? I've never been to one and she didn't...

Erin, Jul 1, 2017 13 1,914
Mrs. Knolle
Open Seating
Mrs. Knolle, on February 26, 2016 at 12:50 PM

Is anyone having open seating for their reception? My FMIL really does not want to do a seating chart, but every article I have read says that open seating is a bad idea for a reception.

Lynn, Jul 1, 2017 86 1,671
Davistobe
Ceremony timing
Davistobe, on June 30, 2017 at 4:01 PM

I have already gotten my invitations and the time for the ceremony is at 1800 hours but do we actually start the ceremony then or do we have a 15 minute grace period for stragglers built in?

Chanta, Jul 1, 2017 20 303
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Wedding Hashtag Help!
Valentina, on July 1, 2017 at 3:10 PM

My fiance is set on having a hashtag but I ain't good at that! Our first names are Joash and Valentina and last name will be Thomas. Suggestions Appreciated!!

Jess'sgirl, Jul 1, 2017 9 407
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