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Super March 2018

Unplugged Ceremony - Success or no?

K, on June 29, 2017 at 7:01 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 46

I was wondering if anyone has had success with their unplugged ceremony? My fiance and I are spending a pretty penny on our photographer and videographer and the last thing we want is for our pictures & video to end up looking like whats shown below. It seriously makes me cringe. Lol.

Can you share your experience? If it ended up working for you can you share how you worded it?




46 Comments

Latest activity by Elizabeth, on July 4, 2017 at 8:05 AM
  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    This has now become something at almost every wedding, whether the venue or the couple asks me

    This is what I say;

    Welcome to you all tonight! Cathy and Tom would just love it if you all would turn off your phones and put away your cameras knowing that their photographers will capture the ceremony in all its glory. The best wedding gift you can give them is to be fully present and enjoy the moments. Thank you.

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  • Chip
    Master March 2018
    Chip ·
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    We're having an unplugged ceremony! Making a sign and having the officiant announce it before we begin

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  • A.Magill.Since.May
    Master May 2018
    A.Magill.Since.May ·
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    My church has a rule that it must be an unplugged ceremony. I expect that the general vibe of the church (gorgeous, reverent, old sanctuary) plus the priest's announcement about not taking picture will be enough.

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  • Dreamer
    Master May 2013
    Dreamer ·
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    Yes, and very successful. Hubby's uncle was complaining about it at our R.D. (it was on our website). He thought his wife should be the exception. She took over 400 shots, after the ceremony. I can't imagine how many she would have added, at a plugged ceremony.

    I started singing at weddings 15 years ago. Once a photographer came up under me, while I was singing, to take a photo. I almost kicked him between the legs.

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  • Holly
    Devoted September 2017
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    Our officiant will be going around and speaking with guests as they come in, we are doing a ring blessing and she is going to make sure everyone knows. I am so lucky I found her ! If your officiant wont do that for you I would just bite it and put up a sign, ask the wedding party too to help gently spread the word to family and friends

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    Yes. I go to the front, make the announcement and then re-enter with the processional.

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  • Lauren
    Expert September 2024
    Lauren ·
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    Thank you so much for posting about this. I didn't even think about the cameras and phones during the ceremony!! Just asked FH and he likes the idea of signage telling people not to take pictures. Also thinks it's a good idea to tell our coordinator (she works at the venue and is helping to make sure we stay on time) to remind guests to but the electronics away.

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  • FutureMrs
    Super January 2019
    FutureMrs ·
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    I'm doing signage and having it announced. It works!

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  • SaraJ
    Super November 2018
    SaraJ ·
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    @Celia, that is wonderful! I hope I can find an officiant that is able to make this happen. @OP, so glad you posted this question!!

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  • Bee
    Master April 2017
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    We had our officiant make the announcement plus we shared our thoughts on the matter to guests (we had a small wedding and we see these people regularly). Neither worked and I'm actually glad it didn't. Our photographer sucked and didn't capture a bunch so having these pictures helps. We also didn't notice the cameras during the wedding processional or ceremony. Even though we did a first look we both were fixed on each other that nothing else distracted us.

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  • Future Mrs. D.
    Super October 2017
    Future Mrs. D. ·
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    Our officiant is making an announcement and this is the sign we are making.


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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
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    I love that we had an unplugged ceremony! There is only one snapshot taken by a guest that I know of (DH's great uncle - so funny!). We got to see everyone's faces the whole time and our photographers got some great photos of everyone.

    We just put a note in our program. Announcements are great, but I couldn't figure out where in the ceremony it would feel appropriate (we got married in a formal church service)

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  • Z_Runner
    VIP June 2017
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    We had an unplug ceremony, and it was amazing that no one took their phones out (I know my mom...so i hid her phone pre-ceremony). The officiant made the announcement before the ceremony started.

    You can also get a cute sign in the entrance. We thought about doing that, but never got my act together to get it done or order it.

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  • Natalie
    VIP June 2017
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    UO but I'm not a fan of this. The photographers are there to capture the moments sure but when are the guests likely to see those photos? Those are for the bride and groom and are sometimes not shared. If people think my wedding is special enough to them to warrent taking photos then I'm honoured and not going to stop it.

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  • Natalie
    VIP June 2017
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    And you might be happy you chose not to go unplugged if your photographer turns out to be a dud or you're an impatient little sod like me waiting for the pro photos to come back! ;-)

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  • Emma
    Master May 2017
    Emma ·
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    We had our JP enter first, and when he got down there he welcomed everyone and asked that people let the photographers do their job. If anyone used their phone, it's not in any picture!

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  • Chelsea
    VIP June 2017
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    We had an unplugged ceremony and I was actually surprised to not see one single phone while I walked down the aisle.

    It's definitely do-able just be prepared for a few rebels

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  • Jacky
    Master June 2017
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    We were planning to have an unplugged ceremony and I mentioned it on our website, but I ended up not enforcing it with signs or announcements because I did want people to take pictures and video. I didn't worry about it at all the few days leading up to the wedding as it was a small detail far from my mind. Not a lot of people visited the website, and I actually ended up only seeing just a few people taking photos. No one got in the way and no one interfered with the photographer. I have a really adorable video now that my SIL took of my toddler flower girl and ring bearer's shenanigans walking down the aisle. ETA: I'm all for unplugged weddings, though, and it can get out of control, although I've never seen it get like that at weddings I've been to.

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  • Julie
    Dedicated June 2017
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    I was really on the fence about whether to do unplugged or not and just ended up deciding it wasn't a big enough deal to say something or have our officiant make an announcement. I'm actually really happy our guests took photos and video bc otherwise I still wouldn't have seen pictures yet from photographers. But totally understandable why people decide unplugged!

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  • Courtney
    Expert September 2017
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    I'm doing something like this so people know


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