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Future Miranda
Valet parking at our reception.
Future Miranda, on June 27, 2017 at 1:13 AM

We recently booked our venue and ceremony (two separate locations). We fell in love with the venue the first time we saw it. The only drawback is that it has no accessible parking lot, only street...

FutureFuji, Jun 27, 2017 7 401
Sarah
Bride/Groom Toasts at Wedding
Sarah, on June 26, 2017 at 4:55 PM

Hey everyone! This might be a silly question but FH is under the impression that the bride and groom are expected to toast at the wedding with thank you's to their parents and MOH and/or BM. While he...

MnmsMonique, Jun 26, 2017 21 1,217
MDEasternShoreBride
Bachelorette Party plus 1
MDEasternShoreBride, on June 26, 2017 at 7:11 PM

Hi everyone, I'm relatively new to wedding wire and have been enjoying getting to know you through forums. I've had a few ups and downs with wedding planning, but have managed to iron things out...

Emily, Jun 26, 2017 12 982
K
Dry wedding is still a fun wedding right?
Kayla, on June 24, 2017 at 6:07 PM

So my venue doesn't allow alcohol we don't drink but both families do thoughts or suggestions on ways to make up for this

JDSquared, Jun 26, 2017 103 3,804
Stephanie
Hosting bridal shower for friend
Stephanie, on June 26, 2017 at 3:53 PM

Hey guys you've all been super lovely! My best friend is getting married and her bridesmaids are hosting the shower, I am a bridesmaid. I have never been in a wedding before, so this is why I am...

Heather, Jun 26, 2017 15 207
Tatyana
Wedding invitations to Female Dr. and family
Tatyana, on June 26, 2017 at 3:01 PM

Good Afternoon Ladies, I have several lady friends with their Dr. and want to invite them and their families (kids) to the wedding. Is the correct way to do it to write out the women's name and then...

annakay511, Jun 26, 2017 9 3,526
Danielle
Cocktail Tables ?
Danielle , on June 26, 2017 at 8:04 AM

Did you do a centerpiece or something else to dress up your cocktail tables? I am pricing things out and just wanted to see if it is a necessary expense. If you have pictures please post them, I would...

NewlyMrsLachney, Jun 26, 2017 18 1,342
tonyheidi2017
Non-religious alternatives to pre-dinner prayer
tonyheidi2017, on June 26, 2017 at 11:02 AM

Our venue coordinator asked us to name someone who would be a "greeter" and get people settled in their seats and ready for dinner when it was ready to be served at the reception. We don't believe in...

OG Maria, Jun 26, 2017 23 16,753
Elizabeth
Inviting Kids to the Reception Only
Elizabeth, on June 26, 2017 at 11:19 AM

FH and I are getting married in a very small old "country" church. It'll be a catholic ceremony without the mass. FH has a small extended family with three cousins, with one cousin having three kids...

LoveLoveLove, Jun 26, 2017 36 118
Silverlava
Watered down bar service?
Silverlava, on June 26, 2017 at 1:00 AM

Is this normal at weddings? At the last one i attended, Id order a screwdriver. The bartender would fill the cup with ice, then fill half the cup with orange juice, add a splash of vodka, then water...

Trang, Jun 26, 2017 21 1,760
Joy
Missing Gift
Joy, on June 25, 2017 at 11:41 PM

So our wedding is over and we're finishing Thank You cards. There were three people who didn't give a card or a gift -- okay, we knew that might happen, and they are still getting a card thanking them...

augustlawbride, Jun 26, 2017 16 1,280
S
Alcohol before ceremony?
Savannah, on June 25, 2017 at 8:34 PM

I am thinking of doing this, then I second guess myself and I change my mind for a few days. Then I go back to wanting to do it again... so what do you think about it? I wouldn't have the wheelbarrow,...

Jill, Jun 26, 2017 36 3,591
ShanynL
First Dance Before or After Dinner
ShanynL, on June 4, 2017 at 1:14 AM

Are you having your first dance as a married couple before dinner (after you get introduced), or right after dinner?

jennifer, Jun 26, 2017 91 1,960
Chantel
Wedding gift for your spouse
Chantel, on June 23, 2017 at 8:12 AM

I was curious what everyone purchased as a wedding gift for their spouse? My FH has always been impossible to shop for. He's not into watches and I hear buying shoes is bad luck. A couple of weeks ago...

Becky, Jun 26, 2017 25 623
Macy
Gifts for parents, grandparents etc.
Macy, on June 25, 2017 at 1:03 PM

I would like to hear about some gifts that were given to parents (mob/mog), grandparents, aunts, uncles, or those who have helped with the wedding in general. Thanks!

Joy, Jun 25, 2017 9 115
Danielle
Valet costs?
Danielle, on June 25, 2017 at 4:56 PM

My Venue has free self parking or $9 valet. I feel like since guests have the option of free self parking then valet should be on them if they choose to go that route. Is this fair? We really...

Becky, Jun 25, 2017 11 711
Caleh
Grandmother Issues
Caleh, on June 24, 2017 at 11:04 PM

So, FH and I decided we just wanted a few of our closest friends and our parents at the ceremony. When I told my grandma this, she seemed agreeable enough and said she would be excited to see us at...

Elizabeth, Jun 25, 2017 16 1,068
Audrey
How to Accommodate Tiny Children
Audrey, on June 23, 2017 at 11:00 PM

Hi guys, so my fiance and I made the decision to invite children to the wedding. We don't know a ton of people with kids, but the ones that we do almost exclusively have 1-3 year olds. Now, I know...

Monica, Jun 25, 2017 16 1,070
Modern Bride
Escort cards vs. Seating Chart
Modern Bride, on June 25, 2017 at 8:47 AM

Hi all...I've been going back and forth about whether to have escort cards or a seating chart. I like the idea of escort cards, but I'm afraid they'll serve their purpose in helping guests find their...

Julia, Jun 25, 2017 15 1,253
SpringBride23
Is my flower budget unrealistic?
SpringBride23, on June 24, 2017 at 7:42 PM

So I've been thinking about flowers lately. I really want to stay under $1000, but I'm not sure if that's realistic. I would need my bouquet, 3 bridesmaid bouquets, 5 bouts and 2 corsages. Then...

Heather, Jun 25, 2017 34 1,541
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