I'm going to try posting this question again because apparently there was a lot of confusion on my last thread as to what I was asking. If I am sending an invite to my aunt/uncle and their family, and my cousins get a plus one (I'm giving all adults/cousins a plus one because who wants to attend alone?) so how can I address an invite to let cousins know they each have a plus one if they chose to? The insides will include multiple invites/rsvp to correspond to each pair (aunt/uncle, cousin#1 +1, cousin#2 +1) in the invite arriving at their parents (aunt/uncles) address in one outer envelope. How should I address the cousins invites in the inner envelope so they know they have a plus one and each pair of people rsvp for their pair? Also I got a lot of questions about why I'm asking so early, but I'm ordering invites and am already thinking the proper way to write them so I know what I'm doing when I get them. I may be crazy apparently but I would like honest, how would you do it answers.