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I’ve read a thousand different posts, blogs, and forums that say “hashtag on the website not on the invites”, but nobody saya where on the website. We have a minter website so we could make a page...
Hi all!! My wedding is in November 2015, any recommendations on when to schedule a food tasting at my booked venue? Thanks for your help!
My invitation designer just sent out my invitations on Tuesday, but I haven't heard anyone that has received it in the mail yet. She sent them out and got them hand-cancelled, which she said takes...
So originally we had agreed that we wouldn’t register anywhere and I wouldn’t have a shower. Now my fiancé thinks we should register somewhere, like Macys. Even though we’ve lived together for 5 years...
In lieu of wedding favors I'd like to make donations to the American Heart Association (in honor of my FH's deceased uncle), and the American Cancer Society (in honor of my deceased grandparents). My...
I made the decision to let the women in the wedding party choose whatever they want as long as it fit the color and theme (does not even have to be a dress, could be a jumpsuit, lady tux, etc.). I...
My ceremony and reception will be at different locations and I want my guests to RSVP online. I don’t want my invitations to be cluttered or tacky but I would also like to save money on paper,...
After lovingly curating a painstaking registry for both honeymoon (Disney) and home stuff (Amazon) so that people can pick how they want to give us stuff, my mother has informed me that the first...
After watching Cheapest Weddings on Netflix I'm feeling so much better about my own wedding. So many notes of what not to do. What are you all doing to keep costs down?
Our wedding was earlier this month, and our photographer was awesome. We don't have our pro pictures back yet but for the past year she's always been in contact with me, and helping me with things not...
So I am the maid of honor and I'm in a destination wedding in a resort in Jamaica. The hotel is a 3 night min which is $1,000 and the flight there for my date and I is $1,000. So that...
I need advice. I'm going to ask my sister who is also my bff to be my matron of honor (she'll gladly accept) But I also want to ask my future sil to be my 2nd matron of honor. Shes super creative and...
So here is a question I have been getting different answers on. If people have told you, after you have sent save the dates, that they can't come for whatever reason, do you still send them an...
Our venue has a 18% gratuity included in our contract. I asked my coordinator who this goes to and she said the gratuity is not given to any individual staff. So my question is where does this money...
I am sure this question has been asked a ton, but I am confused. You aren't supposed to write it on the invite, you aren't supposed to put it on the website, and I guess you aren't really supposed to...
Hi all- I’m getting married by a boat launch and my mom does a good job at making me feel bad about not doing what she thinks should happen... she thinks I should have an aisle runner, but I have...
Hello, My fiancee and I will be getting married in June this year in Wilkes Barre, PA (we live in NJ). We are having the priest from our local parish (a Catholic church; the parish which I've been a...
My MOH and FMIL are planning my shower and are doing all the work. Originally, I did not want one, but think this is a fun time for me to mingle with both sides. With that being said, they know my...
Apologies in advance for the rant: I feel like I’ve made a huge mistake with our save the dates. I sent them out the first week of February and our wedding is in August. I sent around 10 coworkers a...
Hi ladies! I need some help on how to set dress code standard for guests... My bridesmaids are wearing short, chiffon dresses (all same color & style). My groom, groomsmen, ushers & our...