Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

I don't know why but I keep getting this question! One of FH friends asked (exact verbiage: "do you mind if [BF] tags along?" if she can bring her BF along (that she just started dating) when she's...

Hello all! My (the groom) parents and grandparents have their heart set on getting a formal photo of that includes us, my parents, my mom's parents, my brother and his girlfriend, and my aunt, uncle,...

I am planning to have a matron of honor and a maid of honor and I am wondering what the correct order in line is for them?? Does the Matron of honor stand closest to the bride then the maid of honor...

This may be a dumb question. I hear of both of them all the time, but I'm confused. Do you have both or pick one? Can you tell I'm new to the whole wedding thing? lol

I have a wedding coming up and I'm going to give cash but I'm not sure if I should do cash or write out a check. hate waiting for people to cash checks but I'm afraid if cards get stolen and there is...

We're having an adult only reception. The only children invited are those that are in the wedding. Save the dates have been sent out and addressed to only adults (no "and family"). I just found out...

So we’re paying $2700 for our photographer and videographer. Their package price does NOT include gratuity. How much should I tip them?

Our reception is small with only family. We are doing the reception at a private room in a local restaurant. Because we don’t have any any dancing, we were thinking about doing raffle prizes. Guests...

Hello.. just thought I would leave my advice based on my not so great experience.. so I’m getting married on November this year.. I booked my makeup artist earlier this year.. but I made several...

I need advice! My FH is Catholic and I'm in the process of converting to Catholicism. My family is not Catholic and several of the guests on his side aren't Catholic either. The Catholics in...

Are we supposed to add photographers and videographers and dj to the dinner count? I would like to know if I have to add extra people to our final count. We still have time but would like to know what...

Hi all, I lost my dad seven years ago and do not want to do a mother-daughter dance or anything in place of the father-daughter dance. This feels best for me knowing I am pretty emotional about the...

Hi ladies! My FH and I are planning a very small, very inexpensive wedding because it's the only thing we can possibly afford, and we are having to really scrimp to save for it. WE are 100% okay with...

Just making sure all of my bases are covered - should I still tip our bartenders if we allow them to put out their own tip jars? All the alcohol and drinks were provided by us, so there is no bar tab....

How does a bartender having a tip jar out at a wedding usually go over? Is it as bad as a cash bar?

Help everyone, I dint send the RSVP cards yet and my card I put 2 lines to add the guest name. ____________________ & ______________________ However I forgot to add We have reserved # seat in your...

As long as my relationships stay the same I would like my sister (she will have just graduated highschool when I get married) and my best friend since 7th grade to have a special part in my wedding...

Hey ladies, So to make a long story short, my MOH and I are no longer on speaking terms. I’ve already ask all of my bridesmaids months prior to this happening to be in my wedding. I’d like to ask one...

So, my FMIL messaged me this morning asking about corsages and who gets them (they are British). I told her I've made all the wrist corsages for the moms and the men of the bridal party will have...

My mother & father split up when I was a baby. My step dad has been around since I was 4, I am now 34. My step dad has been there, bought me my first car, there for my HS graduation and threw me a...