Discussions from Etiquette and Advice

Hi! My fiance and I booked our cater a couple of months ago but just came across a new location that will ultimately be cheaper. We paid 500 as a deposit to the original cater. It states no where on...

My fiancé and I picked a Date for our wedding , but then my maid of honor mentioned that it’s the same day as our mutual friends dating anniversary. While we have no sentimental attachment to our date...

Hello! I cannot believe that I’m saying this but I am getting married in 11 days!!!!!! Holy smokes! My friend’s 16 year old niece will be playing the piano at our wedding ceremony. She will play the...

We're renting a village hall which is an 1800's school and has original architecture and things like that so there's a lot of 'rules' that we've been asked to tell guests... is there a polite way of...

Hi everyone, I have a question about the dress length for bridesmaids! I’m super short (4’11” and 87 lbs ) and for this reason, I’m shortening my wedding dress to right above the knee! I just feel...

We want guests to RSVP to an email address (for ease and for cost) but is it okay to include RSVP cards in with some invitations for guests that we think would find it easier ? Or should we give all...

Let me first start but explaining something, me and the fiancé are paying for our wedding. It is out of state (in the mountains of Asheville, NC, most guest traveling from MO). I do not have a mom to...

Our photographer has been great to work with, but I’m wondering how I should approach her (if at all) regarding our wedding photos / sneak peeks. Prior to signing, she shared several complete wedding...

I wasn't there, but my FH shared with me that his Aunt's and Mother want to stay at our home for a week while we're away on the honeymoon. They've always been really nice, but this thoroughly annoyed...

I am getting ready to send out my thank you cards and wanted to know what the etiquette is for guests who attended the wedding but didn't bring a gift. A google search left me with even more questions...

Is it not the rudest thing when someone goes out of their way to invite you to a special occasion with a pre-stamped envelope that you really just need to mark a check and your name and throw it back?...

For wedding decor, is it customary to list the Bride or Grooms name first? For example a sign that says “Welcome to the wedding of....” who gets listed first? Thanks!

This is probably a stupid question, actually I know it is but oh well. Is there ANY way to delay my period? Last year when I picked the date for our wedding I made sure it was nowhere near my period...

It seems like a super simple idea, you pick a few people you love to come and party with you, to stand with you, and to celebrate with you on your wedding day and celebrate your new marriage! However,...

FH and I are planning a black tie affair (think white, gold, and black New Year's gala) for our wedding in January 2020 and are unsure what to put on the invitations. We don't want to make people feel...

How are y’all going to handle those who don’t rsvp but show up anyway? I told my FH that i would reach out to those a month before the wedding and if they still can’t tell me yes or no that I’m going...

My mom and dad have been divorced since I was young, but are now really good friends. I know they would have no problem posing for pictures together. However I read opposing views on the internet....

So I have an issue that has really been bothering me as of lately. I have always wanted an all out Vegas bachelorette party. Just something I've talked about and planned with my friends. But now that...

My fiancee and I are planning to elope in January with the teenage kids. The ex-wife is very dramatic and somewhat aggressive. We're debating on when and who(me or my fiance) should tell the ex-wife....

Hello! I’m new here. I got engaged on August 5th and am still in the early stages of planning lol. We are having a private destination wedding in Jamaica on June 9th, 2019 with just the two of us. We...