Discussions I've participated in

Hi ladies and gents! My fiancee' and I are one of the many couples that has postponed our big celebration until 2021. However, we live in Pittsburgh, PA and would still like to do something on the...

This COVID-19 has me feeling unsettled and saddened

Looking for a fun destination for me and my 2 bridesmaids for a 2-3 night trip in March 2021! We live in Charlotte, NC and are willing to travel up to 6 hours by car. We are currently considering...

Hi everyone. First let me say, I too am a covid bride so I understand the stress and heartbreak going on. We were to get married in April in NJ but postponed to November (and are even debating...

So I know the Covid-19 pandemic has been a huge deal, and I know wearing face masks has been a big push. My wedding is coming up in July, my fiancé, wedding party, and close family are definitely not...

Hey ladies...we're still a month away from making a decision but I've been thinking a lot about what to do in our situation. Maybe y'all can weigh in for me? Sorry it is a little long! - We have a...

Hi Everyone! My husband and I had planned a wedding with about 125 guests in Charlotte, NC for April 11, 2020. Obviously, that didn't happen due to COVID-19. We ended up doing a small ceremony in our...

Postponed my wedding to July 26 in PA. They are lifting restrictions and will allow gatherings under 250 people. We were relived to hear that, but now the entirety of my FH’s family let us know they...

Just a recent thought.... Our wedding is fully booked and planned for 10/10/20 and we have not made any moves toward postponing it (besides having an emergency Plan B in mind to still get married on...

Hey ladies! I just want some opinions. Would you go to a reception only (next year) if you weren't invited to the ceremony (in June) because of this virus?! FH doesn't think people would come. I just...

Hello everyone, I am curious out of boredom. If you have ever been a bridesmaid, how much did you spend? When I was a BM, I remember I spent about: Bridal Shower: $120 (I got food, decor and a...

Hello brides! My fiancé and I were one of many couples affected by the COVID-19 pandemic. Which led to many uncertainties, one of them being; should we recycle our wedding invites (we have a digital...

Our wedding is on August 7th, 2020. We are planning to get married that day regardless, even if it means parents and siblings only and having a reception later. Right now we are still going forward...

Hi ladies, Out of curiosity, are you ladies postponing or cancelling your weddings? My fiancé and I were supposed to get married on April 18th, but three weeks ago we decided to move it to August...

My fiance and I were planning our wedding in Italy in September. Now with everything that's happening I'm concerned about if it's still a good idea to go, will my guests feel comfortable to fly to...

So, I had my bridal shower today and it was great! One of my close friends from college (let’s call her Mary) drove up for it. Now, I do not know her current financial situation, but I know she has...

So I found lots of perspectives on this from a bride/host angle, but I’m a guest here and don’t know what to do. A friend is getting married next month. We’ve already RSVP’d and planned to contribute...

I attended a wedding 3 weekends ago, and sent the couple a card and gift card before the wedding (should have been received right around the wedding). She didn't take her honeymoon right away (just...

Hey there, So I just have a question for you guys. I see ALOT of incredibly rude comments when people throw around the idea of doing a cash bar. Its almost like jumping into a pool full of paranas...

I'm going to a wedding this weekend and have decided to bring a card and money instead of buying a gift off the registry. Me being the anxious ball of stress that I am; what do you do with a card you...