Discussions by Scarlett

I am in the bridal party of a wedding next summer, and I got an email from the MoH saying the bachelorette will be in vegas and the brides airfare and hotel will come out to 1K (which we would split...

I attended a wedding 3 weekends ago, and sent the couple a card and gift card before the wedding (should have been received right around the wedding). She didn't take her honeymoon right away (just...

When did most people receive wedding gifts (in particular cash and cards) from their guests? Was it mostly slightly before, at the wedding, or slightly after. In the past I have mostly seen them...

What percentage of people actually adhere to the dress code (tux/gown)? I am invited to a wedding in a few months, that says "Black Tie" on the invite. Whether it will hit all the black tie...

I noticed Zola allows you to register at other stores. It then directs you to the other store to buy the gift. For anyone who has done this, does Zola notify the bride who bought the gift (or should...

I know the pay for plate rule is outdated, but I am set to attend a morning wedding, and was just told there will be no formal meal served (just light appetizers) and drinks (just mimosas and...

This may be a stupid question, but is it ok to "get ready" as a bridesmaid in your bm dress? I am getting makeup done on site, but it's also a logistical nightmare to take an extra change of clothes...

I just have to share this story, because I think its cray! Apparently my co-worker's cousin was set to get married on one of the islands (I honestly cant remember which one it was, but one in Irmas...

I am a bridemaid in a wedding coming up , and the bride is requesting a specific hairstyle. I find the style to be absolutely hideous (will try not to go into details here). The professional hair...

I'm asking this from a curiosity standpoint as I have a number of weddings coming up. In the past (if you got married first), did you generally give the couple a gift the same gift they gave you...

I am the MoH in an out of state wedding in 4 months and looking at flights. The bride has some big plans the day before (rehearsal, getting nails done, getting all the maids a suite to stay in the...