So I found lots of perspectives on this from a bride/host angle, but I’m a guest here and don’t know what to do.
A friend is getting married next month. We’ve already RSVP’d and planned to contribute to their honeymoon fund, which is the only registry on their wedding website.
A couple of weeks ago my friend told me that her MIL wants to throw a last minute co-ed shower for them. My friend didn’t originally want a shower but she agreed. The MIL did reach out and invite me and the shower is this weekend.
Issue is... the only registry is still the honeymooon fund, so I have no idea what to do for the shower. Do I just bring a card saying we’ll be contributing to the fund? Do I guess a gift and bring that? I texted the MIL to ask about a registry and all she said was “there is no registry for the shower but there is one for the wedding on the website.” Well the only one on the website is the fund so does that mean no one is bringing gifts to the shower? I’m so confused.
Im thinking of just reaching out to the bride and asking her directly what she prefers but that feels tacky. Help!
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