Discussions I've participated in

Hello ☺️ Just wondering who here is doing a first look or did one? What would you say are pros/cons? I’m still debating on whether we want to do it or not. I recently watched a video & someone...

What are you asking them to cover financially and what are your expectations of them that are made clear when you ask if they want to participate? Are they responsible to pay for just the dress, or...

Can we talk about songs we absolutely do NOT want played at our weddings? I’m not a huge fan of line dances, but like the Cupid Shuffle, so I added hokey pokey, chicken dance, cotton eyed joe and cha...

So this is definitely TMI, but…how does everyone else deal with, ahem, farting in front of your fiance/husband/SO? I ask because until recently, I held in my gas when fiance was around (even though he...

Just how many of you have a relative horror story to share? Here’s mine my wedding is Sep 24. My cousin and his attention seeking girlfriend/fiancé planned theirs Sept 18 talk about nervy!

Hi Ladies aka fellow planners!! I have seen such cute photos/ videos being captured of grooms seeing their wife to be in her wedding dress before the ceremony.. called first loooks .. on the other...

So many exciting proposals have happened over the holidays! Come share your proposal story and show off those new sparklers!! 💍✨ (And of course this isn't limited to just those who got engaged over...

Hi all, I’m getting married July 2, 2022, at Norbeck Country Club in Rockville, Maryland. I have contacted several people regarding hair and makeup and nobody seems to be working that weekend or are...

So, my father is very alive and very much in my life. However, he has never been the type of father you'd look up to, he's the type of father that your mother warns you "just don't marry anyone like...

Should I not be so worked up over this? At our small couple's shower, our (used to be close friends) decided to announce their elopement in Hawaii a week after our actual wedding. The guy a groomsman...

So I have a weird situation. My FH's parents are divorced. His father has been dating a woman for a while. FH and I have both met her and obviously she is invited. But we do not know her last name and...

We got married almost 2 weeks ago. It was truly an amazing day! But seriously it flew by and of course now I'm just reliving the day in my head. One thing that bothered me was that so many of our...

Hi all, I am going to go shopping with my matron of honor for her dress, but she was having trouble finding plus size dresses in Maryland. Anyone who lives here…do you have recommendations of where we...

Okay, so a bit of background here….my fiancé is a bit of a conspiracy nut. Drived me crazy, but I love him anyway! And his newest thing is not wanting to get the Covid vaccine. I read that our...

As a guest, if your invite says 5:30, do you plan to be in your seat and waiting for the ceremony procession at 5:30? Or do you plan to get there at 5:30, park, and find your way to the seats? At your...

My fiancé and I decided to pay for our wedding and we have a set budget and even hired a planner to keep us in budget. My Mom has turned into a momzilla and complained nonstop that our budget is not...

One of my FH's (former) groomsmen (now groomswoman), came out as a transgender woman a few months ago. We are both very accepting and super excited that she still wants to be in the wedding party...

Hi everyone! Wondering what everyone is doing the night before the wedding? My fiancé and I have been together 9 years (it will be 10 years before the wedding) and we’re trying to figure out what we...