My fiancé and I decided to pay for our wedding and we have a set budget and even hired a planner to keep us in budget. My Mom has turned into a momzilla and complained nonstop that our budget is not enough, our venue choices are too small or not lavish enough. She isn’t paying for anything and it’s so hard to keep telling her we are on a budget and she keeps insisting we ask her and my dad to pitch in. I know once she pitches in she will have a say in it and she keeps putting our choices down at every turn. My dad continues to tell me to ignore her because it’s our wedding and I’ve been trying but it’s so hard to hold back. Both him and my fiancé say she’s being this awful out of love because I’m her only daughter but more and more she’s trying to make the wedding more about her and less about me. It’s more of what she wants, not what me and my fiancé want. She wants to invite her friends and coworker even though I keep telling her we have a limited guest capacity. All she does say is that she and my dad will pay the difference. Everyone in the wedding planning process has been great and my planner has been phenomenal. The only one causing stress and drama is my mother. She makes it as though her opinions are the correct and if we don’t go with what she says we are disrespecting her. Ugghhhhh I’ve been having countless nights of crying solely because of her.