Discussions from Planning

I've had a lot of people ask what they can help with for our wedding- more than I can keep track of. We are needing people to help setup and tear down the day of the event... and I'm sure of some non...

Congratulations wedding date twins! How is the planning going for everyone?

I’m in the middle of planning my wedding (it's so exciting but so much work too, lol). As we get deeper into the details, I realize how much the little things, like equipment choices, actually matter...

2026 bride here! Hoping someone has some ideas to brainstorm! We are having our wedding ceremony in a church with the reception at a seperate venue. I am slightly confused on how the...

Hello everyone! We are having issues with sending RSVP through text messages. We have our guest's phone number, but we don't know how to. Can anyone please help? Thank you, Martha & Gilbert

I’m a groom planning our wedding because my FW is super busy with work and school. We have a year before the big day, but I’m already stressing after a week of engagement. I would really appreciate...

So thoughts on burgers for the main course at the reception. Tacky much? Thoughts? On a tight budget so thinking outside the box. Ideas are highly welcome and we have a huge smoker 😊

Hi guys, looking some help regarding this! so my venue has a limited amount of space, wedding night we have a block of 55 rooms, minimum of 150 guests but half my guest count is local and half it will...

Hi everyone, my fiancé and I are planning to have our wedding in Jamaica. Does anyone know of wedding venues that are not resorts or hotels? We want the use a venue that has beautiful gardens and...

Hey everyone!! SO excited to be getting married!! Love yalls taste in wedding dates

After getting engaged my best friend was hurt I didn’t ask her to be my MOH, and I chose my other close friend for that role. I had still asked my best friend to be in my wedding party, but as a...

How do I know I have a complete list of things I need? I want to be able to see a complete vision.

This is possibly an odd question. Standing up/ full body pictures are always awkward looking with my SO and I because of our 14" height difference. I plan on wearing at least a 3" heel, but that will...

Has anyone heard of a venue charging a 20% overage fee, due 30 days in advance for "just in case" overages like increased guest count, upgraded package, etc? Our venue just surprised us with this as...

I need some help finding a cater that is affordable! I’m getting married in May 2026 in Glenville pa. I keep getting quotes for over 5k for 60guests! Please help!

I'm totally prepared to get a ton of flak for this but has anyone done their reception at a local legion/vfw/etc. We looked into using a banquet room at a local resort we love but it just isn't in our...

Hi "date twins" ! I just had a question: (if you celebrate at all) are y'all leaning into the holiday season at all, or are you keeping red and green very far away from each other? I've kinda been...

Hi everyone! So you may have seen my previous post about my florist quoting me $5,000 for flowers. I've met with a few other florist and they've quoted me around the same, or maybe $1000...

I inquired with a florist on January 30th about my November 2026 wedding. I’m very interested in working with this vendor. She responded same day to give her a week and that she’d text me with any...