Discussions from Planning

Searching for my tribe!! The more I read about other peoples’ weddings and wedding planning processes, the more I am starting to feel like I am the odd (wo)man out. I guess I am what you would call a...

If I schedule my bridal portraits 2 weeks before the wedding, is that too close or should I schedule them earlier?

For example, among all the child free weddings, do you want kids in attendance? Or are you in favor of desserts only instead of a full dinner or say a margarita bar if that’s what your guests prefer...

I feel like at this point, everyone has kind of accepted the cost of videography but I just can't seem to make it work. Honestly, i have about 1k to put towards it, and I'm struggling to find anyone....

Girls, I need your help. How do you manage to combine wedding planning an work/study? I plan to have a wedding soon, but my academic burden seems to be too heavy. I have to write a coursework and I'm...

I need recommendations for the best place to get wedding invites! I don’t mind making them myself, but I don’t know if I should just get Costco cards and then make the rest myself? Or if anybody has...

Is there a timeline I should follow or what to do when!? I have a venue… That’s it 😭 We’re planning for January 2023, help!

I'm getting married 113 days! My fiance is slammed with school, because he's in the post-graduate program and student teaching, then spending each weekend with immense amount of lesson planning. My...

Venue - we are getting married at a venue that is owned by a friend of mine and her husband. She has been amazing with guidance and she also acts as a day of planner - what would be an appropriate...

Hello everybody! Just curious where is everyone at with planning. I always feel like I’m forgetting something.Currently I have all my vendors. I have all of my DIY Macrame projects done. Wedding...

If you are paying for everything yourselves without assistance, how did you determine the guest list? Are you inviting people who don’t have any relationship with you or fiancé to share your day to...

Hi everyone! Newly engaged and planning my 6/12/21 wedding in the Hudson Valley, NY. Videography is very important to us, but so is keeping our budget. I have found Petit Four Films online and they...

When did everyone start going through the legal process of changing your last name? Did you need a lawyer?

Just curious how everyone feels when a guest declines. There have been a few people that I considered close to both me and my fiancé & have declined. We also went to one couples engagement party &...

Hi fellow brides! so I can't decide between 2 photographers. Im getting married in the fall of 2023! I like light and airy but moody sometimes too. number 1 number 2 one is www.bluevphotography.com...

Anyone else getting married in the next month? We are requiring vaccines for our guests and providing masks but the number of breakthrough cases has me feeling super stressed. We are considering...