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Thoughts from those who went without a dj
Ally, on August 13, 2020 at 9:35 PM

I have some questions for those of you who didn’t have a DJ or don’t plan to have one at your reception: 1. Why did you decide to not have a DJ?2. Who did you put in charge of the music and announcing...

Melle, Yesterday at 12:17 PM 8 148
Bridemaids dress shopping
LOVETTE, Yesterday at 9:58 AM

When is it good time to go shopping for bridesmaid dresses?

Melle, Yesterday at 11:08 AM 8 52
December wedding postpone or not??
Aurelia, on August 13, 2020 at 1:13 PM

So My original wedding date was july 4th which had to get postpone because of this pandemic.. and I am having a destination wedding in jamaica planning to have around 100 guests..new wedding date is...

Amanda, Yesterday at 8:57 AM 10 150
Juanest & Tiffany
Invite Time
Juanest & Tiffany, on August 13, 2020 at 5:13 PM

When did you pass out or send out your wedding invitations how far out before your wedding did you do that

Trisha, Yesterday at 8:15 AM 15 141
Sad Covid bride
Casey.S, on August 12, 2020 at 9:34 PM

Once October 2020 bride now October 2021 bride. While I am relieved to be postponed I can’t help but continue to be more and more sad as the days pass, getting closer to our original date. This whole...

Elizabeth, Yesterday at 5:40 AM 9 208 1
What to Do With Kids
Salome, on August 13, 2020 at 5:35 PM

Our Venue Seats 160. We def 100% inviting our family (nieces, nephews, cousins w/kids etc) for sure. We are wondering what route to go with our friends children (there would be 9 of them,) I love...

Kristen, Yesterday at 2:40 AM 11 147
Which came first? Photographer or DJ?
Lynnie, on November 12, 2019 at 12:22 PM

There are several vendors who are crucial to making sure your wedding day is a big success! Which wedding vendors did you focus on first? Was your top priority a phenomenal photographer? 📷 Or was an...

Riley, Yesterday at 1:55 AM 107 333 1
Which came first? Budget or Bridal Party?
Lynnie, on November 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Now that you've got some of the logistics out of the way, it's time to dive in!! Did you hold back on making any more wedding decisions until you had a rough budget figured out? Or did you start with...

Riley, Yesterday at 1:55 AM 92 306
Which came first? Guest list or Venue?
Lynnie, on November 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM

Were you considering your guest list when picking the perfect venue? Or did you select the space first and let that decide the size of your guest list? Which decision was more important to you? Which...

Riley, Yesterday at 1:54 AM 114 425 1
Which came first? Venue or Wedding Date?
Lynnie, on November 12, 2019 at 11:05 AM

The first two big decisions you need to make for your wedding are when and where! But which decision was more important to you?? Did you fall in love with a venue and take whatever date they had open?...

Riley, Yesterday at 1:52 AM 348 2,199 5
Help!! I need a spanish father/ daughter dance song!
pearl, on May 7, 2012 at 2:43 PM

I really like the "i loved her first by heartland". I'm having second thoughts because my dad speaks spanish 95% of the time, I'm full Mexican and so is my Daddy and I'm thinking we might look a...

Jana, Yesterday at 12:09 AM 20 3,543
Couples getting married on January 23, 2021
Isabella, on January 22, 2020 at 5:54 PM

Where's my wedding date twins at?!?!!

Makaelyn, Aug 13, 2020 34 213 3
When did you actually start wedding planning?
Lynnie, on October 30, 2019 at 10:05 AM

How soon after the proposal did you start wedding planning? Did you dive right in the next day? Did you wait a little while to just enjoy being engaged? Did you it take you awhile to get the ball...

Alexis, Aug 13, 2020 181 1,800 7
Micro Wedding Stress!! Help!
Cassandra, on August 13, 2020 at 6:12 PM

Hi ladies! I am in some serious need for help. My original wedding was planned for 4/25 and it was a medium sized wedding with all the bells and whistles (aka vendors). We decided to postpone the big...

, Aug 13, 2020 4 110 1
Bridesmaids v Groomsmen
Asia, on July 28, 2020 at 11:03 AM

You know as women as always do girlie things to ask “will you be my bridesmaid?” But what do guys do? Send a text?? Lol

Asia, Aug 13, 2020 50 265 1
Couples getting married on February 5, 2021
Jessa, on July 29, 2020 at 1:22 PM

Hey ladies First - congratulations 🎉Just curious what everyone is thinking for their wedding in terms of postponing or not. I’m in NYC and we have really dropped in numbers and are in phase 4 but I’m...

Jessa, Aug 13, 2020 11 130 1
Has anyone else's wedding plans been halted due to the pandemic?
Sherraine, on August 12, 2020 at 8:28 PM

This pandemic is still on going, im still out of work because of it. with the limited funds i have im finding it hard to work on my wedding plans. sure i got the visuals in order but the actual...

Lynnie, Aug 13, 2020 3 101
Wedding Favors for guests
Julia, on June 29, 2020 at 10:14 AM

How many people are doing wedding favors for their guests? What are you guys doing for them? Me and my fiance are deciding if we want to do them and what ideas you ladies have done?

Jennifer, Aug 13, 2020 47 536 2
Time of the Month Wedding Dilemma!
Brittany, on August 12, 2020 at 7:18 AM

Hi Ladies! My wedding is on 10/4 and according to my ovulation calendar, I will have my period on my wedding day (it will be like the 2nd or 3rd day). I’m going to accept this for now and not become...

Tara, Aug 13, 2020 22 434 1
Wedding Website Faqs - Postponing
Kaylee, on August 12, 2020 at 11:13 AM

We just choose to postpone our Sept. 12 2020 wedding celebration. We will be having a small ceremony on our original day, and then a party on 9/11/2021. What sort of FAQs should I put on my website?...

Lynnie, Aug 13, 2020 3 48
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