Discussions I've participated in

Hey everyone, hope you all are staying safe! It almost seems small and silly to be worrying about this right now, however it was recently brought to my attention so I am almost thankful to focus on...

Hi ladies, Out of curiosity, are you ladies postponing or cancelling your weddings? My fiancé and I were supposed to get married on April 18th, but three weeks ago we decided to move it to August...

We’re writing our own vows and I’m wondering time wise how long they should be? I’m happy with what I have written, but when I timed myself reading it, it was only about 50 seconds to a minute long....

Hi! Am I making a huge mistake? We aren't planning on programs or a sign version of a program. We have a website (which has only info about the wedding and us - nothing about wedding party), and a...

While doing planning parental from my side and fiance's side having been giving suggestions to classic wedding traditions. Some examples are champagne toasts and a receiving line. I'd rather use what...

I'm still thinking of ideas... and really want to know what to do and not do... So, what have you gotten that you hated? What have you gotten that you loved? Please share!!

I am having a dilemma about inviting my guests kids. We are pretty much the last in our group of friends to get married, so many of our guests have multiple children. If I included all children in my...

Hey all. So we have looked at two venues. Today my fiancee's parents went to look at venue for like two hours and make some deals to cut costs and then asked for some later wedding dates. I feel they...

I recently got engaged and this is my second wedding. I’m super excited to marry the man of my dreams but I don’t want to do what I did the first time and spend endless money on a wedding. That said,...

HELP! Current, Past and Future Brides in the Greater Philadelphia Region, I want advice on where to take my mom shopping to get a dress. We went to one salon, told them our budget (which we thought...

Do I still have to extend plus ones even though I am having a VERY intimate ceremony with only cake and champagne toast to follow? I am aiming to keep the guestlist below 20 and with plus ones, this...

So due to the "new norm", or from what I've seen and heard lately so it SEEMS like the "new norm" I feel like I have to ask people to be in my wedding using gifts. I'm just really looking for input in...

Do people normally eat a lot of dessert? We want to do macaron favors (2 per person) and trying to think of ways to cut down cost... we’re toying with the idea of only having cake as the dessert, vs...

Buffet vs small plated stations vs full plated “sit down” dinner. What did you find to be cheaper? Worried about time and don’t want the dinner part to take up all of the reception!

Hi! My fiancé and I are planning our wedding for August, and seem to be on different pages when it comes to the bar service. He would like to save money & do a cash bar but I’ve always heard how...

So my fiancé is currently away with the army and we've talked about it and we're thinking of just driving to a courthouse and getting the papers signed the day he comes back, we're just super eager to...

So lately I've really been thinking about having a wedding instead of going to the courthouse. I feel like we have done everything else already and having a wedding is a waste of money, BUT I am the...