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Christina
Dress regrets- Help!
Christina, on October 2, 2019 at 8:39 AM

So for some background, I’m having a Halloween wedding next year! I’ve had the idea for quite sometime and was super excited to do a black dress. I found what I thought was the perfect dress and I...

Reena, Oct 26, 2019 50
Emily
Ceremony Scripture Reading
Emily, on September 27, 2019 at 11:01 AM

My FH and I are Christian and we will be having a scripture reading during our ceremony (Ephesians 5:22-33) which says, 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the...

Christie, Sep 28, 2019 5 1
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Fiancé and i disagreeing on how to get married
Haley, on September 24, 2019 at 2:15 AM

We are both at a bit of a fork in the road here. We both live in separate apts and are struggling to get by money wise, and my lease is up in March 2020, and we are planning our wedding for oct 2020....

Judith, Sep 26, 2019 17
Adree-Anna
No hosted alcohol
Adree-Anna, on September 24, 2019 at 2:44 AM

So we are having an early wedding, ceremony at 11 AM and reception to follow, it's on a Sunday. So I don't really feel too terrible about not hosting the bar. The bar will be stocked so people can...

MrsD, Sep 24, 2019 7
Erin
Change of Plans, Don’t Know What to Do
Erin, on September 24, 2019 at 11:09 AM

My FH and I were planning on a spring 2021 wedding. He asked me today how I felt about him applying for the State Patrol. I support him and want him to be happy. However, they don’t open applications...

Anna, Sep 24, 2019 4
Shannon
October brides, how we doing?!
Shannon, on September 23, 2019 at 3:55 PM

I’m a nervous wreck. I’m 25 days out, the 19th. I can’t believe it! I’ve been planning for 2 years! Just have small details left and payments. Ahh!! How’s everyone else?

Lara, Sep 24, 2019 19
Jaclyn
Is it too long to be waiting?
Jaclyn, on September 22, 2019 at 9:04 PM

I recently got engaged 2 months ago and we decided to get married in 2022. What are your opinions on waiting 3 years for marriage?

Vanessa, May 14, 2021 144 9
Erin
Friend is hurt because she isn’t moh or a bridesmaid
Erin, on September 21, 2019 at 11:07 PM

So, I had my bridal shower today and it was great! One of my close friends from college (let’s call her Mary) drove up for it. Now, I do not know her current financial situation, but I know she has...

Casey, Sep 24, 2019 23
The Bride
Sorry, i Couldn't Make It 🙇‍♀️
The Bride, on September 21, 2019 at 10:58 AM

What are your thoughts on guests who do not attend the wedding ceremony but make it to the reception?

Caitlin, Sep 30, 2019 39
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Terrible Reception
Ciera, on September 20, 2019 at 7:14 PM

So, we spent ALL day decorating a barn (ended up looking absolutely beautiful). I feel like I spent so much time and money on absolutely everything. Food for 150 guests, decorations, chairs/tables,...

Meghan, Oct 1, 2019 19
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Maid Of Honor Mental health Breakdown (trigger warning)
Rebecca, on September 15, 2019 at 1:47 AM

Ok this isn’t a common discussion on here but I need advice please! So about a week ago my MOH posted an attempted suicide on Facebook saying “goodbye everyone” and then following up on insta stories...

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Aleaj
Spouse seating
Aleaj, on September 6, 2019 at 10:04 PM

So one of my FH groomsmen asked if him & his wife who isn't in the wedding, would be sitting together at the wedding. I told him no because he would be sitting at the wedding party table &...

Mandi, Nov 19, 2019 208 1
Monique
To Fire a Bridesmaid: Should i or Shouldn’t I???
Monique, on September 13, 2019 at 10:54 PM

I’ve had it up to here with my soon to be sister-in-law. I asked her to be in my wedding in November of 2017. That was over a year ago. Fast forward to this year (2019). I’ve been wedding planning for...

Cassi, Sep 16, 2019 44
Morgan
Would you unask a flower girl to be in your wedding if...
Morgan, on September 9, 2019 at 11:31 PM

I recently asked my six year old cousin to be a flower girl in my wedding. I met him with her and took a box with a card in it asking her.... she yelled “no I’m not doing it”. Her mom says oh yes she...

Jeanie, Sep 10, 2019 11
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Do your in-laws celebrate your birthday?
Emma, on September 10, 2019 at 12:43 PM

Hello, So yesterday was my birthday and It was wonderful but after the day was done I was a bit hurt by one thing. My husbands family makes a big deal out of birthdays, especially my father in law....

katie, Nov 16, 2020 19
Abby
Wedding insurance.
Abby, on September 10, 2019 at 2:03 PM

My venue requires we have wedding insurance. There are no specifics other than that. Anyone have advice on where to get it or what I need to do?

October2019, Sep 10, 2019 5
Lynnie
Do you text your in-laws?
Lynnie, on September 10, 2019 at 11:50 AM

What's your relationship like with your future in-laws? Are you so close with your sister or mother in-law that you text regularly? Are you in a family group chat?? Or is your communication more "in...

Ashley, Jul 25, 2021 166 1
Removing bridesmaids/couples shower??
, on September 9, 2019 at 10:41 AM

Hi there! I’m in desperate need of some advice. So my wedding is next month (yay!). Like most, planning my wedding wasn’t a walk in the park. I have two problems. First, my 3 bridesmaids. My MOH is my...

October2019, Sep 10, 2019 7
Kyra
Are bridal showers still a thing?
Kyra, on September 1, 2019 at 3:52 PM

Do people still do bridal showers or do we just stick to having a bachelorette party?

MrsD, Sep 3, 2019 14
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mil only offering to fly my husband out for a wedding 3,000 miles from home....
Lisa, on September 1, 2019 at 10:57 AM

So my MIL is only offering to pay to have my husband fly back home to attend his cousins wedding. Myself and our kids were clearly not considered or invited. We are married with 3 kids (one is under...

Michelle, Sep 1, 2019 10
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